Hi I'm 18 my boyfriend and I have been together over 2 years and have been having sex for about that long but recently I've been experiencing soreness from sex. I also get an urge to pee when I know I'm not orgasming. The urge is more there when I feel more on the dry side and feeling sore. Its really annoying the gyno told me it's just because he must be real good and over stimulates stuff down there but it stresses me out because I'll feel the urge when its not feeling so good. I've even had a couple accidents where I couldn't control the pee but normally i can control the flow of it when on the toilet. Any advice because a doctor visit and 2 gyno visits didn't do the trick!
Well the urge to do to pee, having accidents, feeling sore doesnt indicate to me that one having a good lover is the cause. presume you have had swabs and urine samples tested? im wondering if you have an UTI. At your age you shouldnt be feeling dry and sore without no reason. drink water before and after sex, dont wsh with anything with perfum in it, wear cotton underwear. is he using condoms as this could be making you sore maybe. Is your boyfriend getting any similar sypmtoms him selfe?
I didn't have anything wrong with me when I went to the doctors for this problem they checked for everything basically. He does not wear condoms I take birth control and he does not experience the same thing. For like the first year of having sex we could literally do it up to 5 times a day now I just get sore after a couple times and have to worry about urinating even when I use the restroom right before sex I get the urge I never get the urge when I'm on top its mainly in missionary or doggy style. But yeah I never seem to get really lubricated anymore only once in awhile. He was gone for four months because he's in the Marines and he got back and we had sex I was so turned on but didn't lubricate enough and had the urge to pee during and felt really sore afterwards but the soreness is now gone this morning. I'm just tired of this problem it doesn't let me fully enjoy sex every time we do it.
If all tests came out negative it sounds as though you might be overdoing it a bit and your body is not keeping up in the lubricating department. Too much friction without enough lubrication will cause soreness. Surely the doctors must have mentioned this. You can use lubricating gel to see if that helps. If you still get sore it could be your body simply teling you to ease up. In terms of your bladder being affected in certain positions why not avoid them for a while and see if your body functions normally? It was my experience that too much sex or having sex after a long time without would often result in a urinary tract infection. Maybe you just need to listen to your body and make some adjustments. Just equate it to eating too much chocolate.