Hi everyone i am riding the perimenopause rollercoaster and feeling rubbish my period last time was very heavy and I needed to take Transanemic acid to reduce the bleeding. Yesterday was day 19 and I am getting a bit of spotting, I am really worried my back is hurting and I feel a bit periody. My anxiety is sky high and I am worried about my health my smear was ok and my hysterscopy 2 years ago was fine. I am pushing everyone away from me, my marriage is in tatters, my husband said he supports me but doesn't I have another man that likes me and wants to give me the world, I like him too but if I left my husband my family would disown me and think I should stay until my boys are in their late teens as it would upset them they are 6 and 8 now. My mother says I am too big and that nobody would want me and I feel bad that I have these feelings but the distance between me and my husband makes me feel so lonely. It has been 6 years since I have had any intimacy. Just very anxious
hi ellie i have had the exact same experience just last month with spotting followed by a very early period.
my period is so heavy i take tranexamic acid each time but day 3 is still so heavy i pass clots the size of half the palm of my hand.
home sounds difficult but only you can decide that one. i left my husband when my daughter was 7 for similar reasons. we all deserve to be loved
kate xx