HI Becki, so sorry for delay in getting back to you, I have tonsillitis currently, and feel like death. To answer your question, it wouldn't be practical for me to be going all round the country visiting hospitals, but my new GP has done me a referral to Bournemouth hospital which I feel is more modern a hospital to Poole, where I was being seen up till now.
I have ordered some silicol gel from Amazon, it is not yet available up and down the country on prescription as they haven't rolled it out, but I have heard good things about it and can't wait to give it a go!
The Consultant I saw in gastroenterology, I really didn't feel had her eye on the ball at all, she prescribed me laxatives knowing full well I had a 16 - 22 times a day (no exageration) bowel frequency and although she claimed they 'bulked up' the stools, this was rubbish, born out by the fact that it gave me galloping diarrhoea!! Worse than I have to start with!
Originally, where I have mental health problems, the doc put me on sodium valproate, avoid like the plague as the topmost listed side effect, unbeknown to me, who was glad to be on something I felt would at last help, was diarrhoea! And also increased aggression and possibility of developing a learning disability. I am not joking, from the word go I had the diarrhoea and didn't relate the cause, was on them for three and a half years, no one thought to look at a side effect leaflet, including myself, I admit, and when the aggression etc started creeping up on me as well, they eventually took me off them, but I am convinced they were responsible for my developing the prolapsed bowel in the first place, a nasty and very powerful drug, evidently. Although I have been off them for five months, I am convinced where I was on them for a long time, virtually unsupervised, and they are so powerful, that they are still working their way through my system, and if you look at another powerful drug, considered far more lethal, steroids, they stay in your system for over a year, so I have some hope that there may be some improvement in my condition later, but realise once you develop a prolapsed bowel a lot of the damage, sadly, has been done, and in my case, surgery was largely ineffective, which is a shame of course.
Anyway, Becki, persevere with your tests, I realise they are daunting, but will help diagnose what's wrong, or at least it pays to look at it that way. Incidentally, I had proctogram and colonoscopy but it wasn't until the Consultant surgeon did a 'hands on' examination under anathetic, that they found I was heavily prolapsed, or fully, I should say, so whether that information is any help to you, I hope so anyway.
Look after yourself and feel free to contact me if you want to chat, all the best, I am heading for the covers now as throat feels dreadful and will until the anti biotics kick in a bit more, Fi xx