First of all please do research before trying anything that I have tried. I would never want to be the cause of anyone's suffering.
My right ear was blocked. After months of trying to do everything as natural as possible, limited medication, it started to move. I had one good day of hope. My ear was moving, so I thought I should occasionally pop it to make sure it stayed moving... I popped my ear and it stayed in that position.
Originally I could not pop my ear, but I would get some movement and noise when I moved my jaw. Now my ear will pop and fill with air, but I can't move my jaw to get it to come back and there is no noise. I have to put steady pressure on my outer ear to get the air out. I would rather not be able to pop my ear. The discomfort is much worse now than before. When it first happened I would have went to the ER if I knew they could do anything. Let that be a warning to anyone that cannot get their ear to pop.
Since then I've started trying medication. If I had it to do over, I would have taken the medication before and may have had better luck, but perhaps the same thing would have happened... an ENT Doc did tell me to keep trying to pop my ear.
My general advice: Understand where your Eustachian tubes are and what they look like. The best video I found was of an ET balloon dilation. Live as healthy and natural as possible. Drop all bad habits. If you have congestion issues, stop consuming major dairy products. Stay hydrated, but not too hydrated, consider occasionally adding electrolytes to your water. Pee should be pale to light yellow. Research any vitamin/supplement you may be deficient in. If you have allergies, correct them. Remember, a lot of us spend the most time, 8 hrs in bed. Keep your bedroom and bedding allergy free. If you go on a deep clean rampage, wear a mask. Change the filter in your furnace/AC. Don't turn your heater above 68. Buy a humidifier. Don't dry your ears out, normal ear wax is good. Stop habitually moving your jaw and trying to pop your ears. If it hasn't worked yet, it's going to take time or something else. Focus on the cause of your ETD. What got you there in the first place? If you do try to exercise your ears, only do it in a steamy environment and notice the position of your posture. Ie: straighten your back and neck. If you have been taking medication and it hasn't helped, consider it could be contributing to the problem. Lastly, believe that you will get better with time.
Advice for a person who wants to try medication. Again, research medication before committing and note this is not a quick fix. This could be a week to 3 week process. If you want to try Flonase instead of Nasacort, let me know how it works. It could take up to 3-5 days for the nasal spray to start taking effect. When you start your day, take some Sudafed with your breakfast. Wait til you notice it kick in, about a half hour. It makes me cold when it sets in. Take one dose of Nasacort, wait about 15 mins and get in the shower and breathe some steam through your nose. You can take the Sudafed every 4-6 hours, but the Nasacort every 12 hours. I try to have the Sudafed out of my system before I go to sleep. I have attempted to replace the Sudafed with 12 hour Claritin D. Not sure what I think, I'm not thrilled with it. May have been more effective before my ear stuck in this position.
If you click on my user name, you will see my other posts. I should wait until I'm completely healed before I post anything. It seems my strategy and condition is always changing.
Can you pop either ear, and what happens when you hold your nose and swallow?