Struggling with extreme, debilitating health anxiety. Need advice, or input.

Right now I'm in a graduate classroom and it's taking all my willpower not to take my leave and go to the emergency room.  The symptoms of my anxiety are so intense, I really could benefit from hearing strategies others have used to cope with issues like this.  Here's my background: 

For brevity’s sake I’m just going to include the highlights of my situation. I’ve had anxiety issues my whole life, but my struggle with anxiety drastically escalated in my early 20’s and became debilitating. I could not reconcile the sensations I was feeling with my doctors’ reassurances that I was physically healthy. I tried a number of medications, cognitive behavioral therapy, and eventually, after a long struggle, stabilized (though I’d still have panic attacks intermittently, they were much more manageable).

Fast forward to today, I’ve just turned 30 and I’m now a graduate student. I’ve managed to achieve a lot of the goals I set for myself in life; however, anxiety is once again becoming a hindrance for me. I recently ended up in the emergency room, convinced I was having a heart attack. The tests (ekg, extensive bloodwork, chest x-ray, and cat scan) detected no abnormalities. I was given an IV of ativan and sent home. Even though having the tests done should reassure me, I’m plagued by fears that I could have a litany of health maladies that are responsible for my physical anxiety sensations. I have such a strong influence over my body’s behavior, if I start to fret over being slightly light-headed, then I’ll fixate over it to the point where I’m able to make myself feel light headed. The same goes for my heart-rate, and many other symptoms.

I’m wondering if anyone else has experience with this type of anxiety. I’ve had a lot of medical tests done, in the past, and recently, and I know logically they should be enough to alleviate my concerns, but I can’t seem to overcome this irrational cycle of fears. I’m thinking a factor in this could be the fact that several months ago I got a new doctor and was prescribed a daily dosage of xanax. I probably didn’t need to take it daily, my anxiety was still under control at that juncture, but I’m now at a point where I am dependent on it. The ER doctor speculated (and this is my layman interpretation) that it’s possible my increase in anxiety is being caused by the xanax usage, since I’m likely building up a tolerance to it, and could potentially be going into a withdrawal state between doses because of it. I'm also on a beta blocker (metoprolol), in order to help my anxiety related heart issues.  My primary care physician seems to think continuing to take the xanax is a viable option, or I could switch to an alternative benzo with a longer half-life.

TL;DR, I’m fixated on irrational health fears that end up manifesting physical symptoms, which then exacerbates my anxiety and initiates a cycle of escalation. My medication could be a factor. I could benefit from some input coming from other people who’ve suffered from similar issues.

How many milligrams are you on everyday? I too suffer from health related anxiety and depression, I take 1.5 mg before bed and doc put me on buspar for anxiety (hated it), so now I am on Prozac and xanax. No matter how many do doctors I see and reassure me I am fine I still feel like they still are missing a piece of the puzzle! I get reassured for that day but after my symptoms come back I know that it surely can't be JUST ANXIETY!! It's a nightmare!! I think I am dying but no one believes me. Awful!!

Coming off of Xanax is a delicate process. If you stop immediately it can exasperate your pre-existing condition. I took a high dosage of Xanax for two days while I was traveling. Once it came out of my system I experienced my worst panic attacks and I'm still working to get them under control a year later. While the medication is great in stopping panic attacks it's certainly not a medication that should be used long term. I hear two months tops but normally you're tapered off and in some cases a long term medication is given while tapering off if you are still experiencing anxieties. I would seek out a psychiatrist for further advice and not your primary physician.

Hi Seven

​Have you had a Holter monitor test done at all?

The dr is correct in saying that you may be having withdrawal from benzos. These are terrible drugs to get off. Have u heard of benzo buddies?

Have you been given a full explanation as to why you were prescribd metoprolol?

 

steven , typos

I obsessed a good bit about health.  And from time to time, I still get carried away into a spiral of negative thinking and all the lovely physical feelings that accompany these episodes of panic.

But honestly, the best thing that worked for me was just accepting that health problems are a fact of life.  If I end up being that 1 out of 2,500 that has terrible random ailment XYZ, then thats unlucky but what the heck can I do about it.  Better to spend my time enjoying life rather than worrying something i'm statistically very unlikely to have wrong with me.  This "so let it be" attitude has, in part, helped in my recovery.  

I'm prescribed up to 3mgs a day (1mg doses to be taken three times), but I really try not to take that much.  An average day probably involves around 1.5mg; however, I find now that I'm unable to feel normal without it, and seem to require more to get any effect.  I know how you feel, when I take tests and get checked out, it'll give me a temporary reprieve, but then the anxiety comes creeping back.  

I don't necessarily want to come off of xanax, but at the same time I feel it's worsening my anxiety (and maybe even the cause of this latest wave of episodes I've been having).  I feel like it was slightly unresponsible of my doctor to prescribe it for me daily.  I was on klonapin before this (lasts much longer than xanax).  I have taken anti-depressants in the past, but did not like the effect they had on my personality.  I would love to get to a point where I can just take a benzo during an emergency situation, but right now that seems impossible.  

I have had a Holter test done in the past, came back normal.  I've had, at some point within the past few years, tons of cardiac tests.  I was prescribed metoprolol for anxiety, it's not a super common usage for the drug, but it is sometimes used to help people whose anxiety is focused on cardiac symptoms.  

I think that's a great philosophy to have, and it was one that I adopted myself for quite some time.  I'm not sure why I'm not suddenly unable to have that mindset, but I suspect my current medication regimine may ultimately be a contributing factor.  

Should read: "I'm not sure why I'm suddenly unable to..."

I think that you are right. Drugs can influence the way we feel sometimes without us fully realising this.

*Irresponsible, I've been so on edge lately, apparently it's compromising my ability to communicate lol.

Steven I struggle from health anxiety as well for about three years and some days it's so debilitating I have a three-year-old son that I want to enjoy but I'm so consumed with the fear of dying that I don't enjoy anything and can't go anywhere it is honestly ruining my life! I've been prescribed so many medications but I'm scared to take them because I know how hard it is to get off of them! I told my therapist recently that this sounds bad but the only thing that helps me through sometimes is to not care what are the chances that we will die of the things that we worry about it's very slim!

Thanks Kelsey, it really is helpful to hear that I'm not alone in this struggle.  I think it's good that you're being cautious with medicine (don't get me wrong, some medications when properly prescribed can work wonders, but in my case it's done nothing but complicate my situation).  I'm going to really try to take everyone's advice to heart.  

To add to my story, I think the fact that I'm temporarily without healthcare is a subconscious element adding to my anxiety.  I am transitioning between jobs, and my new insurance doesn't go into effect until the beginning of next month.  I was just in the ER and had a general practitioner visit at the end of last month, but I think knowing that I currently can't go seek emergency treatment without incurring a massive bill has compounded the other issues I've already been struggling with.  Of course, logical thinking and understanding of root causes doesn't offer much solace when you're in the midst of an episode.  

My Therapist always says "we are all dying, the point is live in the moment and don't worry about the future" I understand that but my body is physically manifesting symptoms, I lost weight, I am always tired, I look like I aged years in a matter of few months, doctors don't take me seriously because of health anxiety, my brain is telling me to relax but my body doesn't let it win! I too have 4 kids and I got to the point where I can't care for them because I am consumed with my thoughts! What a monstrous battle we are against to!

Do you feel anxious, exhausted, fluish, body aches, headaches, extreme fatigue, anger, no motivation, etc? Did this all start with anxiety and now you feel like you have a bad, bad virus or bug all day everyday?

Thank you for the reply! It really makes me feel better to know I'm not the only om struggling! I forget to do anything when my anxiety is bad! I forget to eat, sleep, drink, laugh, take care of my child! I think that's the most distressing thing is that I'm just existing in my living! That's the hard part for me! Plus of course no one understands either! We really have a chemical imbalance that makes us this way! I see a therapist which helps and I got to doctors for reassurance and I feel better for awhile and then a new symptoms returns and I feel worse again! It's a vicious cycle! I honestly worry my life away but what good is that gonna do? It's not gonna save me from getting a horrible diesease! I know how you feel and it's horrible!! Prays for ya!

Yes exactly! I think that the symptoms started, and after numerous doc visits and strange symptoms I developed serious health anxiety and consequently major depression thinking I am dying and fearing loosing my family. I got to a point where I was paradoxically suicidal because the anxiety was messing so bad with me that I actually wished to be dead, I knew it was coming anyway why prolong that agony!!? I decided then that I needed to be admitted to a mental hospital to receive immediate psychological care. At the hospital the psychiatrist told me that my thoughts were intrusive and obsessive but then he did say that doctors can certainly miss diagnose or dismiss a patient on the basis of anxiety and depression, I am now doing a bit better but mornings when I first get up I feel the doom coming again, I used to get up ,go to work happily and I had to give up that too, at times I wish this was just a nightmare but it isn't it's my life now and I try to live it to the fullest but my thoughts are always there in the back of my mind...intruding at any given moment