There is always death in any surgery, same as walking on the road may be hit by a car. I have read many trial reports using Various BPH surgery techniques and have not come across that patients died because of the surgery. Yes, in some trials, there were death, but it is very rare. Also most BPH patients are very old, they could have other illnesses during the surgery , their health were not as good as a young man. Thus , it is difficult to pin point the death was due to the surgery. Even with that the death rate is exceedingly small. So please excercise caution when u said thing like that in a forum in which there are many readers seeking information.
97cc is a large prostate. For example, TURP does not want to operate on a prostate larger than 80cc. There is risk of waiting too long to seek surgical correction as the bladder has to work hard on forcing the urine out and could be damaged. For such a large prostate, the best procedure is HoLEP. There is a lot of info on HoLEP on the website steadyhealth , just google HoLEP enucleation experience.
Yes, there is s kind of drug called 5-Alpha Reductase Inhibitors that may shrink the prostate. Firstly, it may take a long time to work and secondly It may work for some and some have severe side effects.
From wedmd:
5-Alpha Reductase Inhibitors
These stop your body from creating one of the hormones that makes your prostate larger. They prevent growth and in some cases even shrink it. This can improve your urine flow and ease other BPH symptoms as well. They seem to be most helpful to men with very large prostates.
These drugs have two other benefits as well. They may:
Lower the odds that BPH will lead to other problems, such bladder damage
Make you less likely to need surgery
It can take up to 6 months to see the full effects of 5-ARIs, and you have to keep taking them to get results.
Side effects: This medication is not for use by women. Pregnant women should not be exposed to itbecause it can lead to birth defects in male babies.
Other side effects when men take it may include:
Erectile dysfunction
Lower sex drive
Retrograde ejaculation
Some of these side effects may get better as your body gets used to the medicine.
5-ARIs may also lower your PSA (prostate-specific antigen), which affects one way that doctors look for prostate cancer. That isn’t harmful, but it may help to get a PSA test before starting these drugs. Also, the FDA now requires labels on 5-ARIs to include a warning that they may be linked to an increased chance of high-grade (or aggressive) prostate cancer.
Names: There are two main 5-alpha reductase inhibitors:
Finasteride (Propecia, Proscar)
Dutasteride (Avodart)