This happened on Friday night. The soreness is almost gone but I still feel like crying off and on. The past 2 nights I have spent at my bf ' s and he says I'm trembling and jumping in my sleep all night. I feel like I'm just dozing all night but do have random thoughts about losing the baby, what if she/he would have been full term, how they would look etc. Is this normal to be this upset? Crying, no sleep, loss of appetite and just want to stay in bed.
Hey sorry to hear about that
Just your way of grieving, but try not to picture how it would have been if it was long term and trying to picture how they would look. You are only torturing yourself doing that and will make yourself worse.
It's completely normal to feel like that, it was inside of you and the thought like you said, of them being long term have been in your mind and it may take a while to get over it.
Maybe if you feel yourself getting worse you should go and see a doctor and tell them that it's been upsetting you and they will help, stay strong and I hope you're ok
Oh bless you. You have been through a terrible time and I do feel for you. This is very traumatic and of course you are feeling awful at the moment. Give yourself time to come to terms with it as it will take longer than a few days. You are mourning after all for the loss of what could have been. In the meanwhile be kind to yourself and take care. You will feel better with the passage of time I promise. Take care sweetheart. x
Thats all perfectly normal. you have had a severe trauma by losing your baby. Get it out of your system and cry it does help recovery. I hope you feel better soon and up to getting back to normality.
Richard