tear after frenuloplasty?

I've always had a tight frenulum. Sex was always a little painful and I always felt as though I was never really able to 'let loose' (for want of a better expression!) when haviing, as I always felt as though it was on the verge of snapping.

Saw my GP who referred me, and I had a frenuloplasty. It seemed to heal nicely and looked good, too. I don't believe he even used any stitches. My frenululm was now presumably a good length.

I didn't touch it for the full 6 weeks just to be on the safe side.

Went out and took some girl home and had sex and all was fine.

Went out again a few nights back and took a different girl home and had fairly rough sex, and at one point, I felt a strange sensation (didn't even particularly hurt at the time) and then realised that there was lots of blood. I assume i've teared the frenulum slightly?

At the moment (a few days after) I can't even see a tear, although it hurts a little if I try to pull the foreskin back. There is also a large bruise on the head of my penis next to the frenulum.

I guess my question is how could this happen? I mean, is the frenulum always at risk of snapping even in a 'healthy'(normal frenulum) penis?

I'm not sure whether I need another operation or whether it's just the way things are.

Surely other people are able to have fairly rough sex without damage, though?

Anyone experienced the same, even after a frenuloplasty?

I wouldn't have thought you'd need another operation, but I'd get it checked out if I were you.  Very rough sex can cause damage though, both to female and male genitals, and damage to the frenulum is quite common (I had a torn banjo string myself about 30 years ago).  I don't know what the usual recovery time is after frenuloplasty, but maybe six weeks wasn't long enough??

Hi.

I was actually told I by my surgeon that could start having sex again after 3 weeks, and so I waited 6 weeks to be super safe.

Besides, this happened a few nights back which is actually months after the operation so I don't think that is an issue.

cheers

 

Very annoying how there is never any follow up but i'm having the same problem. What did you do in the end????? D: