Ive been with my husband for over 12 years and had 2 relationships before this.
For as long as i can remember I've had what i thought was an allergy to sanitary towels as whenever I'd wear them for a few days during my period I'd end up with little sore blisters in my pubic hair. For years i mostly used tampons due to this and luckily only had 3 periods a year due to pcos.
I've recently had a baby and from having to wear Towels for weeks post birth I've had another patch of blisters appear. This time they are more painful than usual so i googled what i could do to ease the pain and a lot of search results have mentioned genital herpes and now I'm terrified that for all these years i thought i had an allergy or irritation when I've actually had herpes.. I'm also worried i could pass it to my baby or worse that i already have and I'm scared out of my mind.
I don't know how to upload a picture but i do have one.