The misses thinks I have a drinking problem

i do drink yes and when i do i drink too much and cant remember anything once sometimes twice a weekend i dont think i have a problem what is peoples thoughts

its called blacking out. you do thingsthat you normally wouldt do. you are dependent on alcohol. its good to hear you realize it.
you sound like a binge drinker. can go a few days without alcohol then drink more faster and uncontrolled.
see information on controlled drinking. C3 info.

Well, try reducing the speed with which you consume alcohol and eat some light snacks in between; and never start boozing on an empty stomach. If this does not stop the blackouts then you need to reconsider your drinking habits.