Tingling and over sensitive Penis head. Feeling of constant rubbing of pants. All std negative

I visited a full service asian spa in late Feb. Received an uncovered BJ while on the table shower. Since then I have been visiting my Dr and a urologist to try and figure out what she gave me. I have tested negative for every STD you can test for but still have a cold and wet feeling on the tip of my penis. It gets worse after I JO and cum. It always feels like my penis is rubbing my underwear. Was diagnosed with urethritis and treated with 2 different antibiotics. Everything went away but came back. Met with an infectious disease expert who couldn’t even prove I had urethritis. His bottom line was that he doesn’t know what would be causing my symptoms.

Everyone from different doctors to people on these forums tell me its mental. I have read every penis related thread on here and I hope someone can point me in the right direction.

Had to come clean with the wife being she is now pregnant. This one visit ruined my life and there’s no one to blame but myself. I can only hope to warn others and maybe get some answers as to what I’m dealing with being that the doctors are starting to think I’m crazy. Has anyone else experienced such symptoms after visiting a spa? Thank you!

i have been having the same symptoms for 3 weeks now, it tones down when on antibiotics then comes back after finishing the cause please let me know once you find help

any unprotected sex?

when I got infected but not after, did you get cured?

I got infected after BJ for a second or two at spa. I never had BJs at spa or anywhere else unprotected. However, she given BJ for a second or two without my permission and since then i suffering with balanitis. Glans become inflamed and red after any sexual activity or if i Don’t wash it daily. No cure as of now and just living with it and thinking all the time about my wife and children. But, positive part is it is not something that kills you. Hence, trying to focus on future instead past which i can not change.

before you got infected you mean?

yes before I got infected. did you get cured?

Brad- i visited asian spa 1week ago for a massage and at the end i got a bj from her, this is my first bj, had unprotected sex for 1min and i was embarrassed for that and came home washed my penis with handwash, yesterday i got some small whiteheads on my penis, im so worried about it, i dont know what to do. im just fucking 23.

please help if you are cured