I am knowing myself but i have one bad habit. Is that i try to explain my past, but is so difficult cuz something sometimes looks unexplained and this give me full depresion, right now i have this thought that looks inexplained, i try to figure it out how is possible that u did something wrong in the past and u can change a view for this mistake and start living a life like nothings happend, i mean when something wrong then u cant change that. I know that something in my question is wrong but i am stuck in this issue and this makes me feel like i cant change my life cuz i did one mistake that cant change. Please let me know ur opinion about my issue
Hi we all make mistakes and we wouldn't be human if we didn't. There is no point however in concentrating on it because we can never go back and change it so that is flogging a dead horse.
The main thing is to put right as far as possible any harm you may have done and learn your lessons from it. When we do this, our mistakes have taught us to be a better and wiser person.
Thank u for reacting. Things are this way that i think my problem isnt for that what i have done in past but in that how is possible that u can change a view of one bad thing that u have done in past. So somthing has stuck in my mind that sad there is no way to change one thing that is bad, so u cant suffer for years for one thing and than just be free from this because a suffer is a suffer and cant change. Ye sounds really messy but in fact i too am thinking that something in my mind is trying to trap me but my mind really believes that is not a trap because a mind have evidence for that really big insecurities that are in my mind. Really this sound other way very trap that i cant describe that thing, and this gives me full insecurity that is the hardest thing that i have been through in my life, i have been in depression, in medication but this is beyond the life. In fact this is the time i have the most needs for someone being with me but i dont have nobody that can talk, my parents dont understand me, i just am stuck so bad, i am numb so numb, i dont know how to solve this problem, i really need advice from someone