Hey Guys,
Going through posts over the years I’ve seen many guys experience this problem but with no real answer or conclusion. Hopefully it’s because peoples condition healed and they just never returned to this website.
Regardless, I thought I’d start a new thread
My Story: I had sex with a women I met one night, who I later found out was an escort.
She gave me oral sex, then I used a condom during intercourse.
I fell asleep straight after sex, forgetting to get up and go to the bathroom to wash and pee like i normally do.
A day later the tip of my penis (meatus) was red I didn’t think much of it. I presumed it was some friction burn. Days later the redness didn’t go away and I was experiencing pelvic pain and the urge to pee. At one period my Lymph nodes in my groin and neck felt tight for a few days. This was all very stressful and depressing for me
Fast forward 2 months, I’ve tested negative to all Blood and urine tests you can think of, ultrasounds and x-rays, and been on several antibiotics and anti fungal creams. I’ve been to 2 GP Doctors, and 1 Top urologist. All who said my penis looked normal, and that these symptoms would go away over time.
Obviously there is no comfort In that, especially when I’m 100% positive something is going on. My penis never looked the way it does, nor have I ever experienced these pelvic pains or urge to urinate. I always had a very strong bladder, never needing to go to the bathroom more than twice a day. Now I’m peeing at least 5 times a day.
The redness is still there and flares up with any sexual activity, but you only notice it when I’m flaccid. And i am still experiencing mild pelvic pain.
I have never had any symptoms of any stinging, blood, visible coloured discharge, odour, painful ejaculation,blisters, warts or sores.
I’m not so bothered by the physical appearance of this condition, for me it’s the discomforting (pelvic and bowl region) pain. That’s my main issue and cause for concern. I also don’t want to have something and unknowingly pass it on to a future partner
There is no male test for HPV so that’s a possibility.
Not sure if it’s an uncircumcised penis thing? A lot of guys with the same issue seem to be uncircumcised. If circumcision was the answer, I’d do it
Has anyone tried any other treatment. CBD or peptide creams for inflammation?
I’d love to hear other people’s experiences. And by chance, if there are any people who have overcome this unfortunate problem.
Much Appreciated
Update: i have cut caffeine out of my diet, and the pelvic pains have stopped. The Caffeine must have irritated my stomach.