I had an ovary removed, andnearly died from a ruptured blood vessel 15 minutes after surgery. i am still feeling weak. THE POINT IS, THEY OBLATED MY UTURUS ALSO. And now, the thought of certain sex things I used to enjoy, MAKE ME SO S ICK THINKING ABOUT. My husband , is alcoholic, and I know that is part of problem. BUT, I USED TO BE REALLY EASY TO GET EXCITED. Weeks after the surgery, I AM A MESS. I do not want to lose my hubby, but in truth, I MAY AND MY DOC WILL NOT GIVE ME ESTROGEN AS i SMOKE.ANYONE ELSE FEEL TOTALLY SEXLESS AFTER PARTIAL HYSTERECTOMY STARTS YOUR MENOPAUSE ?i AM 43.
I think if your husband is prepared to leave you because he's not getting sex from you right now means that you are better off without him. I am sorry you are having a hard time. Don't worry about providing your body for him. Concentrate on healing and getting better for yourself.
Thank You Sabrina. I am worried he will seek sex somewhere else, not necessarily abandon the family. I am trying to heal, but I feel pressured t have sex, and I no longer enjoy it, not anything like I once did. I thank you for telling me to put myself first. We women do need to do this way more often. GOD BLESS YOU!
Does he go to AA? If not he needs to. Put yourself first because it sounds like he does not care about you.
It's the menapause. I feel repulsed by lovely sex that I used to enjoy. I don't
feel excited by it anymore and it worries me sick. I feel guilty as my husband
is really understanding but I know he wants sex. I am 56 and have felt like this
about 5 years, but I never told him for about 3 years and just kept trying to
be normal, but then I couldn't anymore.
This damn thing has ruined everything. There is only one good thing to
come from it, no more periods and I wouldn't go back to that for anything.
So nothing changes for me, from one helll to another!,
I feel better some days, just having a bad time at the moment.
Sad about the sex though, don't think it will get any better now.