Unable to make toilet

HI, I have been suffering this for some time. when i need to go i only get 2 minutes to get to a toilet otherwise is comes away from me. its not diarrhoea it is formed. I feel physically sick and so unwell when this happens. does anyone have anything similar. many thanks

yea I do

Do you get agonising spasm like pain beforehand too?

I do

Do you have pellet like poos which are hard to pass? And does it take a while to do this while still having pain?

I have very bad irritable bowel syndrome and I get very constipated and have very bad diarrhea and the pain is very difficult to get through

I don’t get any spasm or pain beforehand.

have you had hemmorhoidectomy

I have that.

yea it sucks so much

HI, not been offered herrhomoidectomy, what is this. ive only been given the camera which came back normal. And all stool samples clear. I have no life with this condition no one can give me an answer to what this could be. i need to have my car cleaned nearly every week because i cannot hold my bowel movement and even worse if im in a shop/supermarket it just comes away from me which is regular ocurrance .
How does people cope. Any help / advice really appreciated.