Why it would I laugh? I'm horrified by her utter lack of sensitivity and it's appalling to say the least and that is putting it lightly. I just could never in my right mind, imagine treating my partner w such disrespect. People who love, value and respect you, do not minimalize your insecurities and needs. People who love and value you, foster a safe place for you to feel secure in showing your vulnerability, weaknesses, insecurities and fears. When I love someone, I go above and beyond to show them how much I love and respect them. I tey to make a safe place for them, especially the sensitive subject around a guys manhood.
I say you make an ultimatum. She either agree to go to counseling so fix was is broken and things change or time to go your separate ways. Can you really see yourself being w someone one anymore years of the short life you have here, w someone like that? Excuse my language, but F*** that! You can do bad all by yourself, you don't need another adding to it!
Listen, there is not one genital in this world that is attractive! There is a reason the saying : Bumping uglies is so popular... Because it's true. I can assure you, a woman who really likes you, could care less. Women fall in love between their ears, where men fall in love between their legs. The sad realty is, men are very superficial, because they are visual based creature. Women can fall in love w a man, they thought was physical hideous of she gets to know him, that would never happen the other way around. On top of that, women are so sensitive and insecure about how we look/smell down there, the cellulite on the back of our thighs, or the rolls on our belly, that we do not scrutinize men physically, the way we do to ourselves and other women. Alls that matters to the majority of women, is finding a partner who truly hears them, values them, respects them, loves them, makes them feel perfect just the way they are, etc.. We love the feeling of feeling safe... I have always used my tenacity to get ahead, where I lacked in skill, intelligence or education and it always got me the job. Making up for where I lack somewhere, w another one or more quality such as tenacity, has always resulted on a win for me. That quality for example ia so intoxicating and refreshing, it makes a potential employer for example, look past my lack of experience or skill set, because I made them believe I'm more valuable than w someone who has it, because I out my heart into it. So w that analogy said, I promise you that there are so many other things that mean so much more to someone, than how your penis looks. So make up for what you feel is not up to par, by being a shining star in what yiu do have control over. Hope that makes sense.
Believe me, I've never met one female that has ever said that a mans frank and beans was cute... That's not the discussions we have.. Worry about that when it comes time to gross that bridge... Risks are what builds bridges and What Ifs are the flames that burn them.. Don't live in that headspace w what if's, makes your bridges burn faster, till you are too fearful to even try.