Hi Christine, Just wanted to touch base as I am in a similar position to you coming from the PRE op side of things.
Last year I made apointment with surgeon and was in a very bad head space regarding the whole thing. I eventually decided no I couldnt do it....I think I was hoping for a miracle to happen..maybe?
Things settled and I thought oh this is good maybe just maybe I can get away with this not happening to me
but things got worse...worse pain..more restrictions..more frustration.
There were other factors involved in my head space last year as I had lost my Dad which affected me big time as well so I really was all over the place.. I was very ungrounded and thats not a good place to be making decisions from anyway.
I found a group of Yoga Therapists that I had joined quite some time ago ( I am a Yoga Teacher ) and I connected with one of them and she was/is at the same stage as me.
It really helps to talk things through..
Fast forward 7 months and I have been to see another surgeon and am on a waiting list. Still waiting for a date.
Mentally I am ready. I have come to terms with the fact I will have foreign matter in my body (that seemed to be my biggest problem)
I am really ready and just want to get it done now.
I am in NZ and am on the public health system. There is about a 4 month wait list. Once I get a date I will probably freak im sure but this pain and limited mobility is not good!
great you have come here. Its very good of folk to share their stories.
I am actually looking forward to recovery and my self Reiki healing sessions....well sort of!
So I think you will know when you are "mentally prepared" ....you will just know
Feel free to email me to keep in touch....
Much love & Reiki blessings & healing to you
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