Update 10 months on

Bones, joints and muscles
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Some may remember me, but probably not many here. 

I had a hip replacement last August and I found this forum so very helpful and was on it daily. After my op as I slowly improved I came here less.

My progress was slow and I was still limping and in pain for many months.

I was the main carer for my husband which I know took its toll on my hip as I had to do a lot of heavy lifting as he was unable to walk.

Sadly, he passed away in April and I am heartbroken after 40 years together.

The only plus side to this whole thing is the fact that my hip suddenly improved.

I no longer take any pain killers which I was still doing before and I seem to be able to walk a lot further.

I think what I am trying to say is that there is always a light at the end of the tunnel no matter how small.

The doctor did say at the time that my other hip may need doing due to all the heavy wear but to date I am not suffering with it so may be ok.

So good luck to all you people about to have your hip done. It is so worth it and made life a lot easier once I had it done.

 

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Hi Jean

Things have turned around.......Its sad about your husband but on the other hand its good about your improvement

Onwards and upwards

Love

Eileen  UK

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Hi Jean   I wasnt here then  but you are inspirational   and very sorry for your loss indeed,   Ive had that part - not the hip operation yet,  and know how heavy you can feel at times but just to say it really does change along the way, please know the sun will come out again,  often when you least expect it  and a sad day can change into a lovely day,  funnily Ive been caring for my dear amazing mum  for the last three years,  and feel the emotional stress is very linked to our physical being,    hoping you will continue to improve

please look after yourself  it is at times like this sometimes we have forgotten how to do that when caring for loved ones

pauline x 

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p.s.       yes, meant to say,     light at end of tunnel!!

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Thank you Jean for taking the time to write here...It's nice to hear that you are feeling better. You are a wonderful person, take care and look after yourself.

Big hugs

Ella  

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Hello Jean, I very glad to hear that your hip has improved so much and you no longer need painkillers.  It must have been very difficult for you caring for your husband when you had just undergone the operation and needed to be looked after yourself.  I am so very sorry to hear of the sad loss of your dear husband and you are being very brave and thoughtful to give encouragement to others. Take care of yourself and I hope the light at the end of your tunnel becomes brighter and  brighter as time goes on. x

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Sorry to hear about the loss of your husband after 40 years. It must be very hard moving forward but at least your hip is improving so you can take on some new activities.

Good luck for the future.

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Hi Jean! Well done you! Like you I am my Hubby's carer as he too is disabled with oa of spine,hips and knees and is severely sighted and deaf! I had my right hip done in march ! So will be 12 weeks on Monday! I have stiffness but I am so tense when I walk and helping hubby as well! My right knee is not great! But one day at a time! The whole op has upset me with anxiety! Still roll on the warmer weather! Regards Amanda

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Hello Jean,

Of course I remember you, we had our surgery days apart.

I'm so sorry to hear about the loss of your husband....I hope that you have family and friends that can help you during this difficult time.

I am glad to hear that you are getting your own strength back and are able to get

around pain free.  I too aim waiting anxiously for a surgery date to get my left hip done...I will still be nervous but all the same I want to be pain free...it is no use getting one done and still in pain!!!!

We finally have our summer weather, so it is a nice change to be able to sit outside and enjoy all the flowers and sunshine.

You were always very kind and supportive to me Jean and I thank you from the bottom of my heart....best wishes to you!

Patricia from Aurora, Ontario

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Hi Jean,

so very sorry to hear of your sad loss, I do remember you, and I'm glad your hip is better, keep up te good work, I'm sure Eric is looking down on you and feeling very proud of you,

lots of love,and hugs,

Lynne x

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Hi Jean.  I am new to this forum and have posted my own discussion today.  It is through people like you that help people like me about to go through the hip operation.  Although you have had a rough period and have not had the quick recovery that others may have had, it is reasurring that even when the recovery is long and dark there is always hope and light at the end of the tunnel.  It is good to know that even when you have gone through what you have it is still worth it.  Thank you for giving us the light to follow ...x

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So sorry Jean but every cloud.....strange how things work out...I had mine done Feb 2014 so remember our exchanges.....I'm about 1000% better!! 

Keep smiling.......

Chris

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Dearest Jean, you beautiful soul ... thank you so much for sharing your love and encouragement - my deepest sympathy for your loss - he crossed over knowing how much he was loved and cared for by you - and now it is time to take care of your self - warm hug -

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Thank you for all your lovely kind replies. the internet is a powerful thing and has helped me so much over the last month xxx

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sorry to hear about your husband. I just hope you have someone to take care of you now.