update - not good

Hi all, I have recently returned from hosp following my ileoanal pouch (2nd stage take down supposed to be aug) God what have I done? when admitted May I had a healthy output/stoma good body weight, no anemia, following op there were complications inc vomiting due to my bowel stopping working after a day or so so I was pumped by a tube which was choking and had to wear all night, after which they realised it wasnt down far enough, I also caught a chest infection whilst in there, my hb fell to anemic levels and I could barely stand, I lost weight as well as recovering from the op itself it was the worst month in my life. I found this op much much worse than the subtotal colectomy I had year ago. my new stoma is now tiny and if it gets any smaller it will disapear back inside therefore there have been plenty leaky bags, I wasnt alowed home (or was in any fit state to) as my output was like water (and still is), bubbling and everything I eat, drink comes out in the bag as liquid after a minute, its ridicleuous. I am at home now and hardly get up, so weak, suffering from dehydration,which is worse than colitis. After being told I have a short bowel and they gave me a short bowel syndrome leaflet I had never heard of this before and I thought I researched eveything before I went ahesad with reversal, stoma nurse contacted consultant said they would prob call me in for iv fliud or blood work, 2 days later .....nothing. Feel like I am wasting away. Will I get better? what the heck is short bowel syndrome and I need to be reassured its not permenant as I have 2 young children to look after and as of now I can barley stand. I am taking 12 x 5mg loperamide and 3 x dirorlite. Very depressed which insnt like me ...please help.

Carly

I don't have any experience of this so I can't give any info I'm afraid but I just wanted to say good luck and I hope you get better soon.

OMG, I am so sorry for you that things haven't worked out well. I know you did your research and we have spoken before, this must be so unexpected. Why have you got short bowel syndrome? did they say. Do you have confidence in them?  Where did you have the surgery? J pouch surgery should have a predictable outcome. If you are not absorbing you are are bound to feel awful and need extra help in terms of nutrition.  I wish you luck. Sheila

 

Hi Carly sorry to hear you are going through a bad time can I ask did you used to be carly colitis as your name on here ? I am have my second op but have put off for the next 6 months as I don't feel ready and want another baby before which I've been advised beat to hold off. I really feel for you I think you should get a second opinion I neither have heard of this however how long has it been since surgery ? X