Today we met the very competent and empathetic eye doctor who had diagnosed my wife’s PSC. Let us call her Dr Angel. We just needed to talk to someone and wanted a neutral opinion of our meetings with the 2 surgeons so far. Dr Angel has some past operating experience too but she moved away from it as it is not her thing and instead opened her own non operating eye clinic.
Here is the conclusion of our meeting with Dr Angel…
Surgeon 1- Name- Miss Career (One of Mr Rockstar surgeon’s assistant surgeon)
Miss Career was supposed to take the measurements only and pass us on to Rockstar surgeon for further discussions. This meeting with the Rockstar surgeon part never happened as she actually took full control over all decision making and did not even ask what my wife does for living. She obfuscated the part about who would be actually operating. From her only assisting, it turned out that she would actually be operating (when we contacted reception to find out next day).
Dr Angel said no way should Miss Career operate, she might be good but still not as good or experienced as Mr Rockstar. For a young patient like my wife the risks are very high and an experienced surgeon is required. She said Miss Career can gain her experience with old patients.
Miss Angel was also not happy about Miss Career dismissing Multifocals so readily as Mr Rockstar does lots of Multifocal IOL operations too.
I think Miss Career is probably used to dealing with clueless old patients who go with whatever the doc says.
Surgeon 2- Mr Headstand
Apparently he is a very good surgeon but he seems too old school for me. He also dismissed Multifocals and on being pressed by me actually showed me some older bifocals which according to him are the latest and the best when it comes to Multifocal IOLs. Deal breaker for us was him saying that my wife can do headstand 1 day after surgery as the operation cut is tiny. Tiny or not why risk it???
Dr angel was not happy about him suggesting both eyes set to far. She said for a young person like my wife who had perfect, no glasses vision until few weeks ago, it would be very hard…not being able to put make up, cut nails etc.
So plan of action-
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Make appointment with Surgeon 3 i.e. Mr Rockstar himself and discuss everything with him including Mulifocal IOLs even if we decide against them.
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Miss Angel also refereed us to a place with the latest and the greatest eye measuring equipment to get all the measurements done perfectly to be super sure. She also said that they will help with identifying dominant eye as it is an important consideration for choosing which eye to set for far if going with monovision/mini monovision option. Miss Career was in such rush that she did not even care about dominant eye part until we brought it up.
Ok just needed to put today’s meeting in words to clear my mind!