sorry to post again but i wanted to update the photos, and it may help someone else in future as ill get it checked and hopefully diagnosis, i will share here.
i definitely have an infection but no idea if its bacterial, fungal or viral. i say definitely because all my glands are sore, neck, ear, groin. my body is fighting something
it follows a friction fulled sexual encounter with the guy ive started dating, who i believe is sexually clean, as WAS I
its been uncomfortable and itchy and sore. i will get seen tomorrow i hope, ive had an awful weekend, i should have got seen friday but i work in nhs and had no time. ive told my boss ill need to make an appointment tomorrow.
i shaved with an old razor prior, because my brazilian wax left a few stray hairs - will add more photos as a reply....
looks alot like herpes and given your other symptoms to id say its looking more like it dont rule out other possibilities totally but be prepared iv seen people with similar and it hasnt been herpes supposed the only way to know is to see your doctor i hope u get answers and it heals quickly looks sore
do you think it would be from the guy from sunday night or something i alreasy had and didnt know about? 
hard to say how long u have had it some people dont have outbreaks straight away if its herpes
im freaking out! i wish it could be tomorrow already
wats ur discharge like usually yeasts a thick cottage cheese consistancy
i have had a lot of yeast infections in the past, with the classic white discharge but this feels like that feeling of thrush but without that discharge and with these sores. thing is, i could have had it years and not known right? im devestated
i guess i just feel wet at the moment, maybe some discoloured watery discharge if anything, like when i wipe after urination
my swabs came back as HSV1