really upset and I cant get rid of sadness. I just lost job as I don't have the passive to find new job again. I always thought that I doesn't belong in this world. There no passion to live. I couldn't happy again. Will burning charcoal kill me?
Hello Dean. I lost my job one year back and just found a new one now. When i lost mine people said told me not to worry as I will one better blabla...which of course in this state of mind you will feel like p*ssed out. But truely I got something better and am very happy. Dont be down take it like a break, things like that happen in life, we win and we lose, there are ups and down, but always believe that the best is yet to come. Pick yourself up and find something new. Theres a reason behind everything.
Best of luck
Please call someone and get some help
A doctor mental health team or therapist
Things can and will get better
Stay Strong
I just want end my life
What age are you and what country do you live in?
Be strong most of us had troubles like that, Life is not always perfect we all have our load of bad experiences. Ending your life is not a solution. Me too I have lost mine a year ago, and recently I have got one much better. There will be something better for you too. Be strong. Its all part of life, Believe me
If stay positive everything will be fine right?
Not only positive, but dnt tell this suicide things come into your mind. Control yourself, you will stronger out of this battle. Believe me... try to go out, take it as a break or a holiday. Its not easy at start, but pick urself up, there is much better on ur way
You know people are fighting to live, to have your life, do not think if suicide. In life we will lose lots of things, but the power we have to pick ourself from deception makes us stronger.
I cant be happy again. Suicide always in my mind. I really upset and keep crying non stop. Death is my only solution right now. I have no passive to live.
I quite hard to stay strong as my future is uncertain. Noone will employ me.
What age are you and where do you live
dont speak like that. Death is not a solution as we dnt know what happens after death, it may be the end or the start of something else. If you will think no one will employ you then start something for you, a small business for eg. besides I find no reason why no one will employ you. Just be positive.
How old are you Btw? You have whole life in front of u.
A large part of you wants to live, wants to find ways to cope and reasons to hope. That's why you are sharing your feelings here.
The first thing you must do and this is important, you must make contact with a doctor. You must explain to your doctor exactly how you feel. The doctor won't have a magic pill that will fix everything, but your doctor can assess you and your needs and then prescribe or refer the best course of action.
When you find yourself having dark thoughts do something to immediately change things. Get up and go for a walk, listen to some music, phone a friend, or even write a comment on this forum.
Please see a doctor. And keep sharing your feelings and experiences here. There may be times when you are able to help someone on here, and that in itself can be therapeutic.
There is always hope, and nothing, no matter how bad, lasts for ever.
Stay strong my friend. Don't give up.......and call a doctor 🙂
I have actually lost hope as i have lost a job because someone. That person and his family will get karma for sure. I just too upset as my reputation was ruined. I cant find passion to start career again.
My future was uncertain and no company will employ me.
Can I ask how old you are, and what was your line of work?
Often when something like this happens it is very shocking and it is normal for the mind to go into overdrive trying to imagine what other people are thinking. This nearly always results in us making something bad much worse than it is.
You haven't done anything criminal. Most employers understand that people make mistakes and employers also understand that there are bad people that can blame something on someone else.
This sounds like what might have happened to you. It sounds like someone has blamed you for something they did. If that is the case you must have some faith that this will get worked out.
If you are the victim of injustice there are things that you can do to make things right. There is nearly always a way forward, my friend. Please don't worry so much.
If someone has done something wrong, you can put it right.
No but it would hurt a lot. Have you been to the doctors about this as it is very possible you are suffering from depression. Treatment should be able to help you. x
Hi there
So sorry to hear of your job loss and feelings of depression and anger. It's only natural to be sad and anxious in these situations but you will be ok, and it will make you stronger. Try to picture all the good things in your life that you have still, and focus on these as a goal to make you move forward from your negative situation.
I lost several jobs through redundancies, have been very ill following a minor head injury last year, which made me cognitively struggle a lot and unable to do m job properly as a writer, and now have a drug induced movements disorder affecting my face and tongue that is incurable. So, you could be as lucky as me! Lol!!!
Life goes on no matter what and what doesn't kill us makes us stronger. I tell myself that every day. Otherwise I'd be jumping out of the nearest window! 😩😜😂
Chin up, lots of luck x
That is the depression talking, not you. Please get help. I have been exactly where you are and could think of nothing but dying. Now I am so thankful I just did not have the energy to actually do it! I am doing well mentally and am so glad to be alive even tho my life is challenging. Make your brain do something, crosswords, reading, writing...baby steps. Best of thoughts to you.
There are no luck in finding jobs. I waste 2 years in government sector. No one can help me.
I need financial support to give my parent money as they are retired.
Well if you kill yourself that would scupper any chances of helping out your parents wouldn't it? Not only that but they would never recover from losing you and that is far more important than money. Or do you think that is your only value to them?
It's hard knowing what to say to you without knowing which country you are in. If the UK then you can apply for benefits. It feels like you will never recover from depression but everyone here understands that and we are telling you that there is lots of reasons for hope. We are all survivors of an awful illness and you will be too. x