Urethra/ bladder issues

Just want some advice really or same experiences whilst i wait for my ultrasound . last year i had 2 (what felt like UTI's) one which showed up in a urine test the other came back 3 weeks later, same symptoms but didnt show up. after i had antibiotics on both occasions the awful pounding bladder and pain when urinating went away but ive been left with a feeling of needing to wee everyday even after going. the feeling is more in my urethra. even when i bend down or lean back i feel discomfort like a tingling pressure. my urethra looks like inflamed with a fleshy lump under it (not sure if this has always been like this) and i feel pressure in my lower stomach. this has been going on 3 months, ive sent in urine samples, tried buscapan and oxybutynin and have been waiting 2 months for a bladder and kidney scan :( has anyone had something similar? i dont believe at all that this is anxiety related before anyone comments this.

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