i am truly disappointed in myself for not taking the shower after sex. but my vagina is sore and red. there is a sting when i pee. i have no odor of anything foul. it is itchy around my vagina. and i see white bumps in and outside of my vagina.! desperate for answers and advice thank you

Sorry to say it looks like Herpes to me. When was your last sexual encounter?
but also i think otherwise because i did oral sex with the same partner and my mouth or throat seem fine..
my bumps look exactly like that. I even had a doctor look at mine, she said it was most likely herpes. Im still waiting for my results to come back.