Hello. A little back story on my "sex life" 10-11 months ago i lost my virginity to my boyfriend at the time. Ever since we broke up i havent had sex until today with my guy bestfriend. it was horrible, rough and I was hurting like crazy! My hymen never broke but it stretched. he said it was very tight. and i was in pain when he was trying to push it in. No tube of lube (which i believe is the main problem) and i wasnt really turned on (protection used both times btw) . afterwards it was weird and i felt this pain like i did when i lost my virginity but WORSE ! i smelt blood.. i wiped myself and saw pink on the tissue -- wiped again and it was clear as day but i was still in pain. he told me that it'll hurt because im not very sexually active. i went home and took a warm bath and i peed and it was stinging ! and opening my lips hurt to until i saw a think red line from my opening going on down from the skin under the opening. and i found some weird lumps
help?