i am very worried i have herpes. a couple of days ago i felt a lump under my vagina start to form and it was tender. then i soaked it in the shower and it went down over the weekend. however, there was a bump protruding on top that concerns me.it feels soft but also hard because it feels like there is something underneath it like the lump. ive done a couple of warm compresses this past weekend and it didnt really change until today i did some more this morning and the bump started to release a yellow pus. the bumps are tender not painful. they only really bother me if touched and pressed down hard on. i had this similair issue back in the beginning of april but i got swabbed and blood test and they both were negative. however the doctor did say i could come back in 3 months to test again to confirm. I just really want answers on what this is. also i am prone to utis and recently thought i had one but i got tested and got a negative result back today. my symptoms for that are not emptying bldder fully and when i pee my urethra hurts like i have to pee in spurts. ive been with my boyfriend for years and havent been sexually active with anyone else in like 2-3 years. but i have been having unprotected sex with him. please help.