Jim,
I was referred to the urologist by a cardiologist who was concerned about my sleep interruptions due to BPH. (The ticker was fine.) I'd had BPH for at least 15 years, tried one tablet of Flowmax that dropped my blood pressure to 65/30+ and unconsciousness. Rescue squad took me to emergency where a few hours of fluids got the BP back up. I never took another Flowmax and lived with BPH until the cardioglist referal. The cardo said there were new meds that I should tolerate.
I went to the urologist who did the IPSS assesment, and had technicians do a prostate scan (that involved a rectal probe as I recall.) Then, another technician did a urodynamics test. (And maybe a sonogram of bladder.)
I don't recall the numbers (prostate size, PVR, etc., but the urologist said 1) medications were not an option and 2) if I didn't have surgery, I could end up with a stretched and "dead" bladder, kidney damage and failure, and spend the rest of my life on a catheter. He offered that my health otherwise was so good that I could live to 100 if I took care of the prostate. (I was a very active 76 at the time.) I had never had an accute retention event, never had a UTI, and my PSA was low. I typically was up 3-5, sometimes 6 times at night, but would get right back to sleep.
I was concerned by what he said and scheduled TURP within the month. I inquired through his nurse about Greenlight, as what I read said it had less bleeding and one could expect to be back on their feet quickly. He agreed to do the GL, which I had in early March 2016. I had the surgery on a Thursday, was released to go home and told to come in the next day to have Foley removed, which I did. There was a lot of soreness in the perineum, and around midnight on Saturday, I couldn't pee. Finally, I woke my wife and we went to the ER where I was in extreme agony with acute retention. Even though the ER was not more than 200 ft, and in the same hospital where I had the GL, there was a wait and then the paperwork (insurance, etc.) and then they insisted on doing a bladder scan before doing the catheter. (I'm sorry for being so long-winded... just doing a core dump.)
The Foley stayed in for a week, came out and I was incontinent, and have been ever since. Two months later, the doctor did a cystoscopy, saw a lot of debris and inflammation, and scheded a Gyrus Turp a couple of weeks later. That was done, things healed, but I was still incontinent, and remain so today.
I found a new doctor who is an assistant professor at a medical school in a city 30 miles away. I saw him, and he was really upset with my story. I had my records transferred (I had to pay for that!), and surgery to implant the AMS 800 was scheduled this past December. The surgery, and once I was "under", he did a cystoscopy and, unfortunately, found two strictures that was never mentioned by my first doctor in my records.. He did a balloon dilation but was unable to go ahead with the implant because of the strictures. Since then, I've had a second procedure to relieve a thin stricture, and so far, it seems to be holding, so I hope the implant on 19 June is scheduled.
Why am I choosing the artificial sphincter? Living in Depends (8 to 10 a day) was awful. Really depressed kind of awful, and I was an upbeat person before. The condom catheter with leg bag is better, but is still a real hassle. Beause of the constant drainage of urine during the day, the last time my wife and I had sex was two nights before my GL procedure in early March of 1916. I sleep in the Depends, but sleeping on my back causes the bladder to get full enough (250-300 ml typically, and infrequently 400 if I am exhausted) to wake me 3-5 times per night.
I tired several months of PT at the 1st urology office, trying to regain continence to no avail. That included weeks of using a STM device with an anal probe. Nothing helped. I suspect that the fact that one of the strictures was "right at the external sphincter" according to my new urologist. I've talked by phone with two men who have had the AMS implant (one was with my new uro) and they both are highly satisfied with the result. ( I believe one said they is a minor occasional drip requiring a light pad, and second is totally dry. Both of these men had had their prostates removed because of cancer, and later became incontinent.