Week 6 after Sex with csw fear of HIV - Penis head Sore, Redness, Cracks - Picture attached

I'm 27 years old single male uncircumcised  had potential exposure am not sure if the condom broke while I had sex with CSW - vaginal and oral both protected.

I never had any fungus/candida/balanitis infection ever in my life. I am right now at Week-6 after this event and this fungus or whatever I got it in Week-3 and I remember when I pulled my foreskin back it was smelling and there was while layer. Very next day when I visited Doc he suggested to wack the cream called CLOTRIMAZOLE but NO IMPROVEMENT can be seen. 

Please advise guys I am freaking out if this is an ARS symptom.

Current sympton: This thing on penis and yellow urine from the day I had sex with CSW.

I am feeling guilty each and every day - what a shame.. I would appreciate if someone can take a look and share their thoughts. your support and advise is immensely helpful.

BTW, am scaring to death inorder to get myself tested, I know if I take ELISA 4th Gen Test it will be a conclusive result now as per WHO but I am just scared...

Thank you everyone, much appreciated your help and support.

I'm in the same boat. I have been tested for everything std related and all came back negative. I was given a steroid cream that didn't work. I have seen a urologist and he gave me antibiotics as if it were an std ( Azithromycin and Doxycycline) to no prevail. The Urologist said it didn't look fugal but I tried Miconazole and Clotrimazole anyway and it still looks the same. My Urologist said if the antibiotics don't work then the next step is to see a Dermatologist. No one seems to have an answer. It's been going on for about 9 months for me.....

hi. did either of you find out whats causing this? 

No luck so far

Hey any update? Ive had the same thing for about 6 months dermatologist cant figure it out. Had a screen and everything is neg (minus herpes and hpv which that doesnt test for) so im pretty worried and stressed about this. Any update would be great

Hi Everyone,

Let me take a moment and wish you all a safe new year.

Thank you for being empathetic and asking for an update. To begin with my Urine Culture turned out be suspicious I am not sure if it bacterial or something else I have no clue. The thing that I know is my penis - pee hole is still stinging, its burns when I pee and yes my urine is still dark yellow and on top of all of this Urine analysis shows Erythrocytes in my urine which is consistent after the exposure on July. To add, I have had several HJ (2 or 3) but never engaged in sex. I am feeling pain in Testicles lately need to undergo ultrasound when I have some $. I have been running around from quite sometime and hardly been working. I just don't know what I am doing anymore. If it matters, I was diagnosed recently for Hashimoto which turned out to be positive.

I would appreciate if you could share 2cents in regards to my situation.

Laters,

​Josh

Hi Everyone,

Let me take a moment and wish you all a safe new year.

Thank you for being empathetic and asking for an update. To begin with my Urine Culture turned out be suspicious I am not sure if it bacterial or something else I have no clue. The thing that I know is my penis - pee hole is still stinging, its burns when I pee and yes my urine is still dark yellow and on top of all of this Urine analysis shows Erythrocytes in my urine which is consistent after the exposure on July. To add, I have had several HJ (2 or 3) but never engaged in sex. I am feeling pain in Testicles lately need to undergo ultrasound when I have some $. I have been running around from quite sometime and hardly been working. I just don't know what I am doing anymore. If it matters, I was diagnosed recently for Hashimoto which turned out to be positive.

I would appreciate if you could share 2cents in regards to my situation.

Laters,

Josh

Bro you don' t have HIV chill. I had the same symptoms and it was diagnosed as Gonorrhea. You have to treat it immediately because you are infected for a long period of time and you may have serious problems. Also, sometimes the symptoms of Gonorrhea are the same with Chlamydia, so most of the times doctors give us treatment for the both of them at the same time. I made this account just to answer this post, so I hope that this will be helpful. Happy new year bro. I wish you the best

Ti pires Gia pharmaka bro

Hi, I’m exactly the same, I went to sexual health clinic yesterday they checked on me did hiv syphilis test but doctor say the risk is very low. 

I have blanitis for past 9 weeks did 3 test everything negative, I got uti burning sensation when pee and bladder pelvic pain. I also had skin rash on New Year’s Day but that quickly clears after using some cream does anyone know what can cause Blanitis once my foreskin down it’s very difficult to pull up tight have to see my gp again on Monday.

David 

Did you cure this diseeases???

hey guys i have also same problem black spots and red spots since four month. some times burning and itching also please somebody give me correct suggetion.

I went to bangkok for 5 days holiday and these days i had drunk lot( VODKA) and this is first time and third day of holiday i had sex with a girl i f**k her with a condum only 2 min and sucking her nipples only 30 seconds and after i went to hotel take a shower (ushually when i hand shaking after my my tip of penise getting black.itslike just little i mean tiny)i see my tip of the penise getting black i was afraid but i dont know why i touched it many times and after 2 weeks its not still like it wanst seems to be like that day it is geetig lower t but no pain no chill no rashes i peeing normaly at that day to today i didnt feel anthing sickness but at the night i crying lot because i think im hiv infected.that is very trouble to me.i sleap well.i donig exersise normally like befor(now 4th i had begining exercises)all the day i think about this but i didnt have headChe.can anyone tell me am i hiv infected or stress can be act like hiv my eyes are pain after this happend( and my holiday tour i didnt sleap well because we drunk lot wake up early.and this days my eyes are pain so much).i didnt tell this to my parents.i tell this to my uncle he said dont worry.can anyone tell me am i hiv infected.im reaaly worrry abut this all my day.and im still 17 yers old.how much cost that take for hiv test

I’ve had this issue for some time, it started about 2 years ago, my penis is red, and sore, it hurts to touch / masterbate / receive oral, vaginal sex is ok though, when i first had it, at first i thought it was just rough sex, as that can happen, then i throught it could be thrush, symptoms did ease up after using clotrimozole , but anyway its gotten worse over years and now it’s just red all time and my foreskin is getting tight and tender, docs are useless

Hey guys, did anyone figure this out?

Randomly a few days after sex with my gf, the glans of my penis started bothering me and became very uncomfortable rubbing against my boxers - three days later I had full blown urethritis (urethra burning constantly, hurt to pee, etc). This has been going on for 6 months, I have researched everywhere and I cant figure this out. I have been tested for almost everything and everything came back negative… I have tried:

Azithromycin
Diflucan
Penicillin
Lortrim (topical)
Nystatin (topical)

If I had to guess anything at this point, I would think its one of the following:
-HSV that isnt showing up on a test
-Strep B - hard to test for in men.
-A wicked form of Candida

I have had all sorts of symptoms but my symptom now is a cracked penis head that irritates me unbelievably when it rubs against my boxers, I have changed my boxers to cotton to get through life.

Any other suspects? Did this go away at all? What have you used to find relief.

Good luck!

I had all the same conditions as the rest of you. I was freaking out. I tried everything. Clotrimozole creams, tea tree oil. Antibiotics , probiotics. After having a Dr. confirm that I didn’t have any STD or STI I tried A&D ointment. The stuff you put on tattoos. And diaper rash. And it worked! At ease boys its a diaper rash. Either from lack of lube or the condom or dry masturbation. Or simply your partner got dry. But my rash is almost completely gone and it doesn’t flare up from sex or hot showers any more. A&D ointment worked!

I feel like this is crazy.. so many of us suffering from the same thing but the doctors say something is wrong with us. 15months ago i was at a work function and a CSW performed oral sex on me for around 5 seconds. once i came to it i pushed her off and went to the bathroom to wash my self. Thats when my life turned.
A week later I stated seeing and feeling symptoms. I have had balanitis which I never suffered from before. Random sharp pains at the tip of my urethra. Burning at the tip of my urethra after urinating. The skin on my penis head isn’t smooth at all, it’s all lumpy. When I retract my foreskin, the foreskin sticks to my glands and the glands are very sticky. I have been to at least 10 different doctors (urologist, dermatologists and GP) and never been diagnosed with anything conclusive. Been prescribed a list of antibiotics and creams, none have worked. I’m getting very tiered of this. What makes it hard is that I’m married. My wife knows everything but I’m not the same as I use to be.
I’m starting to think it’s stress and anxiety that’s doing this to me but the physical symptoms are there.
has anyone here been sorterd out?

Look, I don’t know all your details or clinical history, I’m a healthcare professional and I have had some variant of that for a year now. I have been to the best professionals, did all the AB therapeutics and also tested negative for any infection. Even after that, and a year later I was deeply afected in some periods and always worried and anxious.
What I can tell you, by experience and research, is that what most of you have is the same thing, as I have/had, a somatic manifestation of anxiety and hypervigilance. There is no wicked, undetectable infection, if it tested negative, it’s negative.
Your subconscious is capable of manifesting physically in several ways, and that is one of them, for instance, excess production of smegma, that leads to irritation of the skin, maybe some marks and irregularities, or even small allergic reactions. Plus, even if you are generally healthy but keep looking for signs of an infection in your body, and comparing them to what you found on the internet, you will eventually find something similar and further convince yourself that you are infected, and from there it will only get worse. If a pimple or a small mark appears on your back or belly you will probably think nothing of it, or not even notice it, if it shows on yours penis or testicles you will go worried sick, right? Before you had the risk behaviour you could have something, even on your penis, and maybe not even notice it, but now you keep looking for something. Plus, AB treatments can unbalance genital flora, by killing most bacteria and cause balanitis, usually by fungus in those cases. Also, that can recur and be hard to go away, although is usually not very serious.
Bottomline, if you had a risk behaviour, go to your doctor and/or get tested. If it comes negative for everything, it is negative for everything, period. Also, infections like HIV are much harder to contract then you may think, go check statistics of transmission. Bacterial infections have usually very evident symptoms in men, like purulent discharge, that will constantly stain underware, evident smell (balanitis can also do that), other STDs have also very clear signs, plus you tested negative. Unless you experience evident and persistent pain, scarring or wounds, stop thinking about it, stop looking for symptoms, forget that red spot that has you worried sick, forget that different texture and don’t overvalue things. Live your life and try not to worry or think about it. If you want further information, or look into similar cases, check for chronic prostatitis forums or something like that, all the symptoms are there, a bit different each case.
Hope this helps to ease your mind :slight_smile:

Hi Josh, Ive been suffering for the exact same thing for almost a year now. Ive been tested for everything you can imagine and all it’s negative. I will include pictures of my case. The only improvement that had helped me has been the use of aloe vera in gel. This only helps to minimize the irritation but the pain and the sore skin continues…
Have u also tried the A&D Ointment cream?

Have u find some solution at )this point?

thanks!

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