What about me?

Women's health
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Exactly what the title says?!!. 46 female: works part time, 3children 1child added when he's poorly otherwise 1partner, I cook , clean,iron do more a less everything in the house, food shop,take the kids to school,pick the kids up from school,wash upeverynight . 11months into peri with possibly every symptom going suffer with Migranes Acid refluxcomplet aching body ,aching bones... Sitting( oh my god sitting no not allowed have a laundry box filled with 1million pieces off irony work wear school wear etc that has to be done today....)sooo sitting here ...with a hot water bottle well because my back is completely acing... Well to be precises just under my shoulder on my back abit like real bad cold...site aching....

so like I said "what about me.arrrr nothing I'm just fine?!!. Hissy fit out the way now..x

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  Hi Shelly

I REALLY THINK IT'S TIME YOU HAD A SERIOUS CHAT WITH YOUR FAMILY

Regardless of whether these kids are male/female

A chores rota needs to be typed up on your computer

one of them including hubby should be responsible for dishes after the meal in the evening!

and each should iron his/her own clothing, you may need to buy cheap separate laundry bags/ plastic boxes for each

don't feel guilty this is good for them YES, at some point in their lives they will have to do this

These kind of individuals become better adults  

if you write this down it will be taken more seriously

Don't be tempted to groan or whine or you will not be taken seriously

PLEASE DO THJIS FOR YOUR OWN SANITY HUN 

                       Good luck 

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Mrs Merm, Thankyou  so much for that, that is a good idea. I honestly do to much moaning ........prime to roll up my sleeves.......get my notebook and do a chart for each person.....my eldest son 2 a week does help me he Hoover upstairs and down and cleans both batrooms.....my middle daughter I think can start ironing ( as I bloody hate that job) my youngest boy is only 8...Thankyou though the idea is good.xx

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  WOW Shelly you are sure having it bad,  sorry to hear you are such a  busy lady  Surpirsed you have not gone to the looney bin ......  (Just hand in there girl)

So hope your day gets better.....