What do I do

Mental health
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I fear I've made a huge mistake. I really like someone a lot now I make connections fast and normally they are quite intense

I met someone and really likes them so much is kinda worried I'd fall for them anyway but shared personal emotional feelings with them

Anyway she's with somebody and she got a little tipsy and well hit on me I mean right yeah I'm like wow super flattered and believe I wanted her so so bad

However I felt as she was with someone and drunk I'd be taking advantage of her so I declined I just didn't want her waking up and regretting anything ya know I mean whose not done that right.

Anyway after I declined I sent several messages to her checking she was ok and not miffed at me ya know but she didn't answer any off them I think because I was trying to do the right thing by her I've lost her as a friend too now and I really liked her what can I do about it I think she thinks I have led her on as I told her I liked her I just couldn't put her in that position it wasn't fair to her she deserves better than that

Any advice would be much appreciated I've not slept all night with worry

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She's embarrassed

Watch 10 things I hate about you, focus on the party pat takes Kat to and take some tips

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Hey superflous. She prob fell aslp due to alchohol & is waiting for you yo call xx

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I agree, I think she's embarassed. Give her a little time and I think she'll come around. It sounds like she has some soul searching to do if she is with someone else but felt that way. Don't bombard her with messages because it sounds like she needs a little time, but being honest about your feelings after she's had some time would be my advice  

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Thx panda your probs right just giving her space and if she wants to talk she knows where I am

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Hey you x yes she probs did she doesn't drink much so that could be it although she didn't respond so I'll leave it up to her now where things go from here.

How are you doing, coping I hope not seen you on here for a while x

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Probably ryt. No not been too good so leaving the forum tday xx good luck hun in yr recovery xx

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I Hate goodbyes Amanda especially when ppl say I've not been to good x I'll pm you my number just incase you need a chat ever x do not hestitate useing it I'll also give you my kik name incase you want to use that this way it'll prevent you giving your number out likewise so not hesritate in using it

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Awww thats so kind thankyou xxx

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yes it Is but I'm trying to be a good boy this year Santa not forgetting me again hahahaha xx anytime Hun you should have them by now lol

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Got them thanks luv xx

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hey superfluous...i think u did the right thing declining her while she was drunk...thats what any gentleman would do...i think she will come around and this time may be more than a friend.

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Thanks amit I was just worried she feel rejected ya know like she wasn't good enough or something and it's not that at all

It's just she is with someone and guilt plays heavy on people I'd not want to be a part of that or make her feel worse

So I guess sometimes you just gotta roll the dice ya know take a gamble on whether you rather her feel guilty or risk her not speaking to you again via rejection seems rejection can be more easierly overcome than guilt so I've played my roll and will see how things pan out thankyou

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 Um! you see if someone is being disloyal in order to be with you, why wouldnt they later be disloyal to you? if you care so much for her that would hurt you one hell of a lot, look the other way find someone available, dont get burnt. Some men like unavailble women it turns them on but remember if you woo them over they are no longer unavailable and you will want another woman then ( if you are like that).