ive masturbated a lot since i was real young idk if its from that ooorrr idk but it nevee hurts or nothing and at first i use to have this white stuff around it but now i just clean it off is this normal?? does everyone's look like this ? its right under my bell head not the little white dots but the thing under it like the meat part both of these have been there all my life
Hi tmarion98, let’s see if I can help you with this. When you reply, you need to spell-out what you are meaning as I do not use a mobile phone and therefore do not understand abbreviated talk / sayings - thanks!
What is sounds like you are trying to describe could, in part, be quite normal, but it seems you have something that you are concerned about, such as " the thing under it " that we need to get at what you have going on. The best way to do this, rather than rely solely on description would be to try taking some photos of it, then pick out the ones that highlight what it is you are concerned about and try attaching 3 or 4 to a Reply to my post … you may need to get the photos on to a laptop or PC so that you can change the image size before you can successfully upload them to this web site … often changing to a jpeg and so on is all you need to do.
It might also be useful for me to understand how you clean your penis, such as with soap?, after every time you have urinated?, do you ‘fully clean-up’ each time you have masturbated and ejaculated, either straight afterwards?, or perhaps sometimes you leave this until the next morning? What is it that is going on for you regularly?
The issue of washing your penis may be really important so I need to know whether you wash with soap, particularly your bell head and do you always clean it with shower gel and suchlike when you have a shower?, and do you shower every day?
I want to help, but need to details and hopefully, some nice clear photos of what you are concerned about …
yes tbh i dont shower as regularly as someone should. and not washing it fully after masturbation is soemthing did my whole life but sometimes i would shower after masturbation and that is kinda better but maybe i dont clean it as well as i should, cause it never hurts nothing is wrong. i just be getting nervous over snything
Okay, so it sounds like the time is right to get your penile hygiene sorted. It sounds like you took a similar approach to me, but, I am not trying to use scare tactics here but I now have an incurable skin condition present on my foreskin and head of my penis. So obviously, these are the kinds of issues you need to avoid having to deal with. I therefore need the details of what this is about - " i just be getting nervous over snything " …
I did ask for photos of what you are concerned about so that I am fully aware of what you currently have. When you say " this white stuff around it but now i just clean it off " - this it likely to be Smegma that you were dealing with, this is naturally present on the head of the penis. You can search for ‘what is the role of smegma on the head of the penis’. Then you go on to say " its right under my bell head not the little white dots but the thing under it like the meat part " - it is difficult to know what you mean by this and what it actually looks like, normal or something going on, causing an actual issue …
So until I get more information from you, and hopefully photos too, what you need to work on is your penile hygiene and issues related to your Masturbation practices - specifically thoroughly cleaning away pre-ejaculate and semen once you have cum.
The worst thing any male can do is to leave pre-ejaculate and semen on the head of the penis overnight as what can happen is that if it is in-between the head and the foreskin this will eventually act like a corrosive agent. The other complicating factor is that you can get an accumulative effect of bodily fluids - urine, semen and pre-cum - and regularly used lubes acting together to attack the skin cells of the foreskin, head / glans / bell-head area of the penis.
The other essential to be aware of is whether you use Lubes to masturbate with, particularly anything that is petroleum oil based such as Baby Oil or regular skin creams and lotions that kind of thing. Water based lubes are better, but may not feel very good, so liquid Coconut Oil is better as it has natural skin healing properties anyway.
Penile Hygiene Protocol to Combat Penile Problems
In the mean time abstain from applying anything at all to your penis - wash the head / glans with water only, dry 100% immediately afterwards by patting dry with a towel, draw your foreskin as far forward as you can each time you shower to protect the head, once you have thoroughly rinsed everything off, expose the head of your penis and rub with the inside of your hand only. Don’t apply any Lubes, Baby Oil, Moisturiser or Skin Creams / Lotions to it. If you are sexually active, or Masturbate, clear away any fluids from the entire surface of the head of your penis as soon as you can. If you use condoms regularly try doing without the need to use them for a few weeks.
By doing all these things hopefully you will get a positive reaction. If you use any of the things I have listed to avoid, on a regular basis at the moment, you can reintroduce them one at a time and see if symptoms return to discover what the potential cause was … As ever, if it worsens considerably seek Professional Medical advice …