im not sure what this is but i took a needle to it and welll yeah
infected hair follicles
stop shaving and the problem stops
okay one other question. When i masterbate (god this is embarrassing) my clit area, and all around that gets swollen why is this?
are you using a vibrator or fingers
do you use a lot of pressure
how long do you take
usually fingers and i know my vagina is extra sensitive. I have been sexually assulted before so im not sure if that makes a difference ( no stds tho). when i use my vibrator it doesn’t happen as bad. I tend to use lots of pressure and not really that long.
i also tend to get UTI’s a lot
make sure you use a lot of lube
try varying how you masturbate
it sounds like to vigorous stimulation
Thank you
any time
stay safe
Can I just ask a few more questions because I do not have anyone in my life to answer them?
What is a safe soap to use down there and is there anything i can do to prevent the ingrown hairs and things when shaving?
dont you soap just warm water
your vagina cleans itself
why do you need to shave
this is normal for your vagina and clit area to get swollen. it is a highly sensitive area and when your aroused the blood flow increases in this area and thus the swelling. it will go back down after like normal. You can use Dove sensitive soap if you like. mild soap is okay nothing with strong fragrance . if you shave, go with the hair growth and the fewer passes the better.
I have the same thing I wish we could talk in private 