me and my gf of a month been having unprotected sex numerous of times. she told me she has herpes since age of 9. from being molested by her step father is it possible to only contract the virus from flare up or outbreak , im freaking out terribly... im worried , scared as hell
u can get it if there are no spots present the chances are lower than wat they would be if there was lesions there but its still possible to get it as the virus sheds if u start to notice anything unusual like blisters etc then visit a doctor for a swab but until u do i wouldnt worry
im ok its just when she told me kinda freaked me out. i noticed we stop having sex for 3 or 5 days… she says she takes medicine for it. my mind is all over the place.