Hello Cheryl, Ben here.
Please believe that you will get better. I am in month 16 and I am begining to feel very close to myself again. I just have some Strabismus ( wandering eye). And I have a lot of confusion from the "compensation" process, which impedes my ability to think quickly and clearly. I have better days than others, but all in all I am way better than I was a couple months ago. Please have faith in your body's ability to rebuild itself. Also keep positive about it. One way to stay positive is to be glad it's not a deadly disease.
Remember that we each grow at our own pace. So it only stands to reason that we all recover at our own pace. Just because the government lumps us all together, say by age, like they did for school, or says we should be over something within two weeks, doesn't mean that we all go at the same pace. Some are faster than others and some are slower, that is why some terms have been coined like " the cream rises to the top" and we're not talking about milk. It just means that we each have our own personal level of living this life and it's not the same as everyone elses. Take heart that the spirit that drives us is good and although we might not understand it all the time, our bodies are doing pretty great things just by being alive.
Now, lets make sure of a few things to help with the belief system.
1). Check your diagnosis to see if it fits the pattern of the symptoms that it's supposed to. Google everything. Ask questions here on this forum.
2). Look at the tests you have taken and see if all the bases are covered. Remember dizziness can be caused by so many different things, from a heart beat to a fever. A vitamin deficiency can start it, but maybe it's a migraine or cervical stenosis at the heart of it. Just because you have dizziness doesn't automatically mean that it is coming from your inner ear.
3). Don't expect rapid changes, from what I have seen and experienced it takes a lot of baby steps to get to where you can walk like an adult again. Don't try to rush the recovery, it's going to take as long as it takes. --BUT--
4). For sure do the exercises, just make sure you are doing the correct ones for your diagnosis. ie; don't do BPPV exercises if you should be doing VN exercises.
5). And last but certainly not least, keep a positive mental attitude on your outlook. Keep company with only those that care and are willing to go along with your positive thinking. Make jokes about it to keep it in perspective, it could be a lot worse. Do those things that you can do, that are fun for you. We only get one go-around in life, no matter what hand we are delt, make the most of it. If all you have are "Lemons", make Lemonaide or Lemon Pie or Lemon Pudding etc etc etc.
Please believe that the human body is a miracle and that it will take care of itself if given a fair chance. I see people smoke and drink and race around in fast cars, and somehow they survive. Our bodies are pretty remarkable.
I hope you will find solice in what I have written here and feel better about yourself as a result. I am on your side, I'm pulling for you. Ask, ask, ask and ye shall be answered.
Take care Ben