White bumps on vulva?

This is embarassing but I have no idea who else to go to for help and I can't tell my family. I've had these bumps for almost 2 months they do not itch or hurt at all and they are whiteish/yellowish and I've tried taking a pic to see closer and it looks like they have a black dot in the middle, could it be ingrown hairs? But why have they been there that long? I've had no symptoms of an std. What does this look like? Thank you.

Sounds like it could be fordyce spots