if i had herpes wouldnt my partner have oral herpes ifs she give me oral
Well there’s chance of transmission. The body has invisible shedding even without visible sore. If there’s oral sex during a shedding, risks are higher. It’s impossible to tell when shedding happens but it’s said it happens more frequently for HSV2 than HSV1.
The contrary is also true. Someone with invisible shedding around the mouth can pass herpes to the genitals without visible sores.
It’s possible