two days ago, i used a spray deodorant as a dildo and i put a condom on it. a few minutes later, i feel something stinging and itching. fast forward, i take a look down there and i see this. it stings a little when i urinate and itches sometimes. is it just a scratch/ulcer from not being lubricated enough? or is it something more serious?
Note: i have had the same partner for 7 months and have not been sexually active for 1 month
Looks like you ripped yourself from not enough lube or it was bigger than you can fit safely.
okay thank you. so it’s something i shouldn’t be worried about? i just thought it was odd that it was closer to the urethra rather than the vaginal opening
I see that now I might be wrong then have you touched it to see if it hurts or what it feels like?
i touched it and it hurts a little, more like a sting. it’s itchy at times so I’m pretty sure it’s because it’s healing. it looks like it’s getting better though
Just keep an eye on it I think it’s just a cut/ulcer.
okay thank you. i swabbed it just in case, i saw some sticky substance on it, like pus?
It could be an abrasion. Difficult to tell from the image you shared Any swelling or discharge? I’d keep a watch on it to avoid infection especially if it is starting to itch. How long ago did it appear?
Patty