minnie4; it is frustrating isnt it !
Im 57 and I hurt my back at age 28 while pulling a cardiac arrest patient out of a car - I worked at a large teaching hospital in Pittsburgh Pa. I heard a loud POP sound when i pulled the guy then shortly after or a few hours I had pain down my legs.
Now in your case you said you also heard a loud noise - or a SNAP you called it. Did you hear it and feel it ? I ask because any noise while lifting or bending can be a sign that something bad happened.
Three herniated discs, facet and arthritis or " spondylitis " is the medical term they give it. The facet allows for motion in the low back and in the neck but the neck facets tend to allow for less motion so the body cant get hurt during a sudden movement. The Dr said you went too long without treatment - if the facet is an issue and its left alone after an injury the body will try to heal that area and muscle spasm is part of that process of healing along with lots of swelling, both of these can and will cause more pain. Yes at our age problems can be part of the natural aging process but you have too many other things going on to pin the problem on age - 50's isnt that old anymore. Doctors like to blame problems like yours on something they can easily explain, like age and then tell you to live with it. Its not that simple and you dont need to live with pain that takes away your quality of life and your dignity. I know how you feel.
3 herniated discs sounds bad and it normally is but remember; a herniated disc is not always the cause of the problem. If any of the discs are interacting with the nerve then yes it will hurt and cause a lot of other problems like you have described in your post.
I have had over 35 MRI tests and they do the MRI because its easy to do and its a low risk test for you, no needles or pain and almost no way to make it worse. Problem is the MRI is not the best test to have done and its mostly done to rule something out. In your case it found something or things causing pain and numbness. The MRI can miss things to and that depends on how good of a MRI machine was used, was it an open MRI - they tend to be less dependable.Did they use any dye for your test ? Dye will provide a better picture and if you have a lot of arthritis the dye will enable the doctor to seperate whats old and whaats new, in some cases. Sometimes having a normal X*RAY can show a lot, I hope they took one.
When the Dr asked you; is it nerve pain or is it muscle pain - that is how that Dr will determine just how bad your case really is. If you say muscle pain then he would most likely tell you to get lots of PT, lots of stretching and other forms of therapy to quiet the muscle pain and spasm. Had you said - NERVE PAIN - then the Dr would probably look a lot harder for the cause of that nerve pain. The problem is, how would the average person know what the hell that Dr is talking about ? Asking you that question was just plain stupid in my opinion, a person in pain knows one thing, it hurts and you dont know why. I think asking that question was his way of taking you serious or are you just a person with lots of muscle spasm that needs PT. Nerve pain is more direct, like taking a pencil and tracing the line of pain and when you do the pencil will follow the nerve. It burns and the pain can come and go depending on how you are standing, sitting, bending, lifting, walking and sleeping or not sleeping. If I sleep in my bed I will have a bladder issue but if I sleep in a chair sitting up the bladder problem is all but gone. Sitting up will free the nerve impingement while sleeping will entrap the nerve causing the bladder problem - you need to understand how the mechanics of your spine work in order to understand why you have the problems you have. I got my Neurosurgeon to spend nearly 45 minutes with me and go over my MRI, CT-Scan and Nerve Study and he was able to explain to me why I was having all the problems I currently have and thos ehtat will only get worse. He said my condition is Acute, Progressive and Chronic. Meaning; its bad, its not going away and its going to get worse. So far he's been 100% correct. My surgeon said my pain is similar to cancer pain without the cancer.
Please get tested for MS and any other neuro disease that might be causing some of the problems you have described. I have similar issues and my Dr did a complete work up, Blood, Brain scan, the works and it all came back fine. He said its all related to my back problems. And, they are; arthritis, scar tissue, 16 inches of titainium screws, spinal stenosis, foot drop, bladder problems, numb fingers, hands and feet and a ton of PAIN. I thank God everyday for the wonderful wife I have that could have left a long time ago and I think most would have. My wife has been by my side and seen it all happen and she cant believe how badly patients like me and you and others get treated by doctors that think we are all just a bunch of babies or drug seekers.
Yes,a semi normal life is very possible provided you get to work on those CORE MUSCLES - Just kidding. Find out what is causing your symptoms and then find out what will help them to get better. In my case I tried everything from a Chiropractor - no manipulations - Accupuncture - Spinal chord stimulator and even bio feedback. Staying in good shape helps the body deal with the pain and you need to keep your muscles strong in order to fight off the muscle atrophy in your legs, arms and even your fingers. Nerve damage can cause a lot of problems and thats why you cant - do nothing - find the cause if you need to go to 5 or even 10 doctors, sooner or later you will find one that cares enough to help you get better. Waiting will only make you worse if its a nerve issue.
Your not crazy just tired and DO NOT get depressed it only makes it harder to feel better. Take on a - this is not going to beat me attitude, I'm going to beat it. Use the internet to find answers just remember its the internet. Dr's are not perfect only human and thats why it might take more than a few of them to finally get you taken care of.
Oh yea, 1 test does not tell the whole story so if you need more get more and push the Dr to get it done.
Im sorry for the long post but you sound like someone that needs to hear from a person like me. Ive been there and done that and there is a way to get you feeling better you just need to do a lot of the work on your own. Please dont hesitate to ask me for more information. I'm giving thought to writing a book for people like us and after nearly 30 years of dealing with these problems I believe I know as much as some of the Dr's that treated me or at least from the patients point of view.
Lastly, if you act like you feel like crap you will, if you act like you feel better you will, if you act like you feel great you just might. The brain is an amazing thing so use it to your advantage.
God Bless you minnie,
John11891