I'm leaving this site/forum. I just want people to know and understand so as they dont make the same mistakes I did. As hard as this is to say and I shouldn't even have to not want to say but just be wary of the things you write, not everyone is your friend and not everyone understands xxxx
If there is something really important that you need to talk about then maybe pm somebody you know will be a better option. If you're new to the Forum then maybe try to read some posts/comments. You should be able to find someone genuine, someone that understands you and can help xxx
I hate to see you leave, but fully understand. I've noticed a big change in this site from the time I joined until now, and it hasn't been a good change. I'm just sticking it out for now, and hoping it changes for the best.
Maybe you could just take a break from here for a little while, instead of leaving completely?
Non, tu n'es pas don don, c'est la dure réalité dont je parlais dans mon post. Tu les quittes, ils gagnent. Tu les laisses t'éloigner davantage de l'aide dont tu as besoin. Tu es une personne magnifique avec un esprit merveilleux et tu es doué(e).
De manières que je ne peux qu'imaginer, tu dois rester. J'adore lire tes posts. Ne laisse pas un guerrier du clavier qui n'a rien d'autre dans sa vie que de s'attaquer aux gens te pousser à t'éloigner de l'aide dont tu as besoin. Plus de gens ici ont ton dos que tu ne pourrais l'imaginer. Mon esprit contre les intimidateurs est dix fois plus grand que celui de l'intimidateur. Laissons-nous te protéger et t'aider, don don. Il y a tellement de bonnes personnes ici, tu sais, qui se soucient de toi.
Hi dondon. Ive also had 3 bad experiences on the site. But there are so msny genuine ppl on here too who just want to help. I have a great heart which im told is a gud thing. I honestly believe that it makes life a hell of a lot harder for me as its how many times do i get hurt and get back up u know. But there are quite a few of u id miss if i didnt have u in my life on this forum so if u change yr mind and just wanna pm then that wud be grt. As for another special person u know who u are id never want to lose your friendship ever xx i think we have a great understanding of each other n ill always be here for u. Mentally im getting help with therapy to address hpw to finally put me first just a tiny bit. Ive got someone now taking it slowly & is a very positive person. Entirely diff than anyone ive ever been with. So im going to live the dream for as long as i can i dont wanna die old thats for sure. But my daughter nds me as long as im able xxx pm dondin maybe recoconsider..? I for one respect yr decision but ill miss u xxx hugs xxx
Hi dondons - I think the secret is to have this site as a reference, somewhere to vent and read the posts by those who have proven to be genuine and non-judgemental. I do not approach this site as the answer to my problems, but a collection of souls who understand how I feel, that our path is rocky and sometimes treacherous, and who have information and experince that can help others. I don't expect anyone to have the answers - hell, even the medical profession doesn't have that. As for anyone unfriendly or critical, well, there's always one or two of those where ever you are in life. They are probably hurting and have not learned that projecting that on others helps no-one, least of all themselves. Best of luck whatever you decide.
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How long have you been on here Amanda? Shame on you... ha ha.
Don't let the bullies drive you off dondon if you need and want the site. I stayed away several times coz I was hassled but came back after a break. Keep your options open. xx