I'm having the worse Christmas my now ex broke up with me
I'm so confused because I thought we had a good thing first off he's saying he has intimacy issues and commitment and then just says he doesn't feel the same about me that he had his doubts, cries, says it's the most horrible break up he's had and the idea of losing me is not something he takes lightly.
I'm confused did his feelings just changed
Los chicos nunca saben lo que quieren. No arruines tu Navidad por una ruptura. Estoy seguro de que en unos días él recapacitará y ustedes dos estarán bien. Si no, es bueno que se hayan dado cuenta ahora y no hayan perdido más tiempo. ¡Anímate!
I shared my anxiety and depression and sometimes cried so I'm scared if I scared him off
Si no puedes llorar a su lado y compartir tus problemas de ansiedad, no es el indicado. Los chicos deben poder manejar y creer que esto es un problema mental real, y no solo que estamos siendo demasiado dramáticos. Algunas personas simplemente no entienden. Si está destinado a ser, él volverá.
I doubt he will come back the last thing he said was that his feelings changed about me
It is an awful time to break a Partnership up. It stayed with me and still remember it as Christmas, New Year is a signpost that is hard to forget.
In my case all worked out well it laid out a route to people who had more to offer in a relationship and I learned some valuable lessons from it. Sometimes especially in this day and age relationships seem to be more problematic than what they were in the past.
Be thankful you have found out the kind of person who has left you, given time someone will be around who will have a more meaningful attatchment towards you and your life will expand outwards when you meet the right person.
Look forward, never look back there is always something better just around the corner
BOB
I just feel he won't regret it he made me meet his siblings I bought him a Christmas gift and dumps me before Christmas...I feel he will move on and have a great relationship like they all do
Kelly, lo siento mucho por lo que estás pasando 😢 qué cosa tan horrible hacerle a una persona en Nochebuena.
Entiendo que en este momento tengas miedo de que compartir tu ansiedad con él pueda ser la razón. Creo que en este momento exacto, tu respuesta es natural.
Sin embargo, muy pronto te darás cuenta de que si no puedes compartir cosas importantes con alguien, ya sean cosas sobre ti, tu familia o cualquier otra cosa, pregúntate esto: ¿cuál sería el punto de una relación así?
La respuesta es simple...
No te diré que estás mejor alejada de esta persona (¡lo estás!! ¡Lo estás!!) porque eso no ayudará ahora.
Sabes en el fondo que una relación se trata de confianza mutua, respeto y amor. Pronto lo encontrarás por ti misma 😊 Espero que puedas pasar la Navidad con personas que realmente te aprecian
Hello Kelly
As long as you did not give Him His present, if you have take it back.
You are making the error of feeling only He will benefit from the break up not you. He may have someone in the wings, that does not mean that would be a meaningful relationship, it could be a real blaster and the girl may really lead him a merry dance, please do not feel in any way you cannot do better for yourself than that squirt.
Take time now and be selective in your outlook boyfriends, girlfriends are like double dekker buses one will be passing the bus stop soom and you never know what will be on that bus awaiting a person like you.
Life can be hard and we all play by set rules relax have a meaningful Christmas you will be ok
BOB
He sent me a merry Christmas text what do I do?
He sent me a merry Christmas text saying hope your having a nice day ..I'm so confused?