Does herpes ever look like this or it's just a yeast infection cut?

It has happened in the past year 3 times , immediately after several not enough lubricated intercourses, my vagina to become itchy and gradually swollen and red up to maximum 2 weeks. In the meantime, after 2 days from the day I started to have the itchiness, cuts in the skin folds started to appear in interval of few days, while others were healing, first above the clitoris for example. Sometimes watery and a bit cheesy discharge. No paint when urinating, no bumps, blisters, or anything like this, although I am afraid it is herpes. Any similar experience? Or informed opinion? Thank you a lot!