About 2 week ago I had sex with my for the first time with someone who I've been seeing for a little while. The sex was rough and he was pretty big so I had a little rip. The next day when I woke up it was super itchy and it went away in about 2 days.. And 4 days ago we had sex again .. I woke up feeling fine until this morning. Some blisters had appear near the entrance of my vagina. And it is soooooooooooo painful when I pee. I can hardly walk or sit it's so painful.
I don't know if that's herpes or not, but it doesn't look good, and you should see a doctor. You could either see your GP, or if you're in the UK, you could go to a genitourinary medicine (GUM) clinic - google "GUM clinic near me" for details.
If you could update this thread and tell us what the doctors say, it would be appreciated. Good luck.
Malheureusement, cela ressemble probablement à de l'herpès, mais seul un test par écouvillonnage peut le confirmer avec certitude et déterminer de quel type il s'agit, s'il s'agit bien d'herpès. La précision du test par écouvillonnage diminue avec le temps, alors rendez-vous chez un médecin dès que possible et insistez pour un écouvillonnage spécifique au type HSV, même si le médecin fait un diagnostic visuel et pense que cela suffit. Veuillez nous tenir informés. Bonne chance !
Désolé de l'apprendre, mais cela ressemblait vraiment à de l'herpès. Et c'était ton temps avec ce gars, et la première fois ? Quelle horreur ! Le médecin a-t-il fait un test de prélèvement pour confirmer le diagnostic visuel et déterminer le type de HSV ?
Yes this was my first time ever with this person. 2nd time ever having sex... i got swab test done and it came back HSV2.. i dont even know how to deal or process this...
Waouh, comment avez-vous obtenu vos résultats de test rapide si vite ? C'est le plus rapide que j'ai jamais entendu parler !
Je suis sûr que vous êtes sous le choc du diagnostic. Cela peut être très choquant et stressant à gérer au début, et cela prend du temps pour réconcilier les choses. Je sais que c'est difficile à imaginer pour le moment, mais les choses vont et vont s'améliorer, tant physiquement qu'émotionnellement.
Plus que heureux d'aider avec toutes les questions que vous pourriez avoir. En attendant, restez fort.
That's horribly unlucky, but it's not as bad as it probably seems right now. It's definitely not good news, but life will go on, and though it's likely you'll have other outbreaks, they probably won't be as bad as the first.
Some studies estimate that over half the UK population has been infected with herpes at some point. Most of them will have no symptoms, and be completely unaware, but over 50 women are diagnosed for the first time every day in the UK.
You need to let him know, and sadly, it seems to be fairly common for people in his position to deny that they have anything, and even to blame the person they infected. Men |(and some women) often have no symptoms, so he may have no idea that he's a carrier. It's unlikely that you got it from your first partner though. If you're in the UK, a GUM clinic can notify him confidentially on your behalf.
It looks like your other thread has gone, so I'm posting these links again, which may help:
Sorry to hear that you have herpes but it isn't the end of the world for you you'll learn to cope with it and the outbreaks become less overtime I was diagnosed with it 3 years ago and I sometimes become depressed myself but I still have that small bit of hope in my heart that someone would accept me even with the virus and the same will happen for you!
Having herpes (or any other STI) doesn't mean no more romance. It complicates things, but if someone likes you enough, it won't be a problem. A long time ago, I'd just started seeing a girl who broke up with me and told me she had herpes. It didn't make me want to stop seeing her though. She had at least three partners after that, so I wondered for many years if she'd made it up to break up with me. I finally got the chance to ask, and she said she does have herpes, but would have broken up with me anyway (I was way too keen apparently).
There's also a good BBC article titled "Online dating for people with sexually transmitted infections", which talks about sites which are just for people with STIs.
J'ai aussi eu des relations sexuelles pour la première fois ! Mon 16e anniversaire est dans deux jours et je ressens ta douleur, à la fois physiquement et émotionnellement. J'ai été tellement triste récemment, mais je voulais juste te faire savoir que tu n'es pas seul(e).