Five months and struggling

Can anyone help me or give me some advise please, I was driving home from work and came over all funny and had to stop the car. As the days went by this feeling went away and would come back at random times night or day.

one night me and my wife were going to sleep and it happened again I was convinced I was going to die, I went to a&e and got put on a heart monitor when the doctor came to see me he asked of anything had changed in my life and maybe I was having a panic attack.

fast forward five months and I'm convinced I'm dieing, headaches,tension in my head. Scared I'm going blind as I've convinced my self I have a brain a tumour, as soon as I wake up I ask my self if I feel ok I just can't shake it.

It's like me sences are on over drive I'm looking for every ache and pain. I went to the opticians who showed me the back of my eye and said I have healthy eyes. I've been really jumpy when people talk to me. Some days I think I'm going crazy, slowly going blind alsorts.

I have tried to throw myself into work but this feeling is winning, I haven't been to the doctors yet but I have booked in now and admitted defeat. Has anyone else felt like this, I'm not sure how much more I can take to be honest.

Yes. I feel your pain. It's awful and so difficult to live like this. I too feel sick everyday. I can't function, move, do anything. I went to work everyday and struggled through. I've had anxiety for months and it seems to have worn me down and is turning into depression. I'm a happy, stable, fun person who had my life ripped from me. I have zero energy.

I think we need a doc (but that gives me anxiety, so I'm so afriad to go) and some therapy. It might take meds and a good therapist to get us through this.

Do you feel weak and sick too? I not only feel jittery and tired and sad and anxious, I also feel like I'm dying as I can't really function or eat.

It's a real pain in the ass. I feel so sorry for my family as this is a big strain on them too. I was the "do it all" gal until this hit me. 

Bless you.

I know your pain my friend I have the same thing sounds like panic and anxiety. The good news is you can't die from it. It is very uncomfortable believe I totally get it and there is a lot of people on here that can relate and have been where your at right now. I personally have been put on medication. I was terrified of going to the dr too but glad I went. Look up box breathing it can help a lot and help you relax it takes a little to get used to. There are lots of people on this site that can help. I have came here a lot for reassurance. Stymay strong my friend you will get through this.

I'm the same,  I have a nice home great wife, three kids that love me.

I just want to wake up and feel normal, I have tried herbal medicine meditation but I just can't shake it.

I also feel weak and drained but I can't sleep properly either, maybe four or fives hours of interrupted sleep a night.

I hope you get the help you need as well.

 

Yes Lee,

 your symptoms are very common to millions of people who suffer from anxiety. 

 I have been anxious since I can remember which would be about six  years old. I have had numerous symptoms of anxiety and when I got into my 20s that was the straw that broke the camels back. My body couldn't take all the buildup Anxiety anymore  and I had about 10 to 15 symptoms all going at once! I was terrified I had some terrible disease. My dad took me to a neurologist and all the test were normal. I knew in my mind that all of this was caused from years and years  of stress and anxiety from being very shy and inhibited. I  have had the headaches, the head pressure, weird feeling in the head, and general overall strange feeling throughout my body.  I had many more symptoms than that but I don't want to list them because some people will actually develop them just from mind suggestion 

if you had a brain tumor you would've known by now,  since all this started five months ago. Don't Google any symptoms! That will just make matters worse and scare you for nothing.

Please do keep your doctor appointment because when your test come out normal then you can begin working on managing the stress and anxiety like I had to do. 

 let me explain what the weird feelings are caused by: 

 when we are feeling anxious, the brain thinks that we are in immediate danger so it sends out a hormone to prepare us for "battle".   This hormone increases blood flow through the body which can increase our heart rate, cause us to sweat, and various other symptoms. When there is no actual danger to us, all the energy of the brain has mustered up has to go somewhere.  So we get symptoms such as the weird feeling that you had driving, headaches, etc. The key to managing all of this is to calm down our brain.  Sometimes mornings are the worst time of day for anxiety.

 I would like to share with you what has helped me. Some of this may or may not pertain to you but take from it what you think you would benefit from. 

KEEP IN MIND .... symptoms brought on by stress and anxiety CANNOT  Hurt you in anyway!! They feel weird and are annoying but that is it. I've been able to reduce my anxiety symptoms by 98%. The WORST thing you can do is react with fear  and more anxiety because this will actually create more anxiety and symptoms. A vicious cycle! 

IF YOU  want to learn how to react to the symptoms, go to YouTube and search for "anxiety attack secure self help anxiety treatment. "

 OK here are some other things that have really helped me ...

 1.  what I did was first of all speak with a counselor. They see this on a daily basis and have the tools to help you manage this. Anxiety and stress is difficult to manage on our own and it really helps to talk to someone else. I keep going even when I start to feel  better because it's like a lifeline for me. Find a counselor you feel comfortable with. They help you see the anxiety for what it is and it help you manage it. If you ever really feel out of control and can't manage, seeing a counselor would be the first best step!

Remember....FEAR  stands for false evidence appearing real.   Which means sometimes when we have symptoms we think they are related to some terrifying disease, when in reality the odds are much higher that they are not.   Our minds  will go to the negative if we let it, so we must be in control.

Don't let fear take you over! Be a fighter for yourself! 

 2.   Secondly, I go to Google or YouTube and look up audio meditations like ones called " clearing subconscious negativity " and another called "Guided  meditation for detachment from overthinking" I put in my earbuds and lie down and listen to them. They teach us to separate our thoughts that are negative from ourselves. This is something I think could really benefit you!! They completely  calm down my brain and body to the point where I almost feel like I'm floating. This is such a great thing to do for your brain and overall health. I do this a couple times a day  specially when I'm laying down to sleep. 

 There are some on anxiety, panic attacks, depression, getting a good nights sleep, etc. 

There are MANY to choose from just pick the ones that you like. There's also positive affirmation ones that are helpful too. I play them in my car and while I take a walk. The more you listen to these the more your brain and subconscious will believe them and the better you will feel

 it will just calm everything down when you  are having an acute anxiety attack 

For panic attack, search you tube for "panic attack emergency "

3.   Stay active! The worst thing you can do is sit around and think too much about all this. It will bring on more anxiety. As well as the symptoms. When I exercise my body completely calms down and the symptoms often go completely away. 

4.   Stay social! This helps keep your mind off your worries. The less you are alone the better at least until you manage your anxiety. Just do things that you enjoy. 

When  feeling anxious or anytime you'd like, do deep breathing. Breathing through your nose for about five seconds and make sure your stomach rises. Then exhale through your lips as though you're blowing out a candle slowly for another five seconds. Do this as many times a day as you need to. It helps if you're lying down but you can also do  it's sitting. 

Eat healthy! Stay away from processed foods especially sugar. Sugar has an inflammatory response including in the brain. This will just increase your anxiety and can possibly bring on depression. 

I have had symptoms for many many years on and off and now I pretty much ignore them but I do try to stay as healthy as possible and do those things I listed above. The meditation audios really are excellent please try them and do them often !

 You will be fine  once you get this under a little control.  You will have a long great life and you deserve peace and happiness.

Don't let fear take you over! Be a fighter for yourself. Fear is based on non reality. 

If I can feel a lot better, anybody can!

Our minds  will go to the negative if we let it, so we must be in control.

 if you can, pick up a book called mindfulness. It's an excellent read and teaches us how to overcome anxiety, negative thinking etc. 

Hope you feel better soon!!  ðŸ˜ƒ

 

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Hey There I'm currently on medication I have had depression and anxiety and depression for about a year and half right after I had my second child I had severe anxiety it was horrible I felt like I was going to die. I was 7 months with no medication and it was torture and painful. Then three months I felt like my body went to normal until one day I experienced my first panic attack that day I was positive I was going to die!!!! I thought I was having a heart attack I had racing thoughts I thought i was going to go crazy my heart was palpitating so fast and my blood pressure went sky high. Since then I knew I had to run to the doctor and get help immediately even though it took me two months to actually take anti depressants because I felt like I couldnt handle it nomore. So I was put on zoloft which helped alot!!!! then after a while it stopped working and was put in prozac recently which did help me the first three weeks and then this week has been hell I been having thoughts of seeing myself dying or just thinking Im going to die. Its horrible I still don't feel stable as I would like to feel. My mood changes alot too. It just sucks alot.I hope you can get the help you need ...medicine can help but everyone is different.

Thanks for that much appreciated 

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