Hi guys. Wondering to ask you about experience using cane.
Honestly, I found that sometimes it can be very useful.
I have regular, hiking and after my resent drop attack
my husband bought me folding. It is really cool, I am keeping it
in my bag and in case of any sudden dissiness, it is open
quickly as James Bond cane....😊 The problem is that I am 100% women, so as soon as I feel better, I am werring dresses and
even heels(that staff less and less..) so when people see me with cane it can be looks strange... I need to explain to everyone.
Does anyone has same experience?
I do use a cane, especially when I am going to be walking longer distances. I find it helps keep me from leaning to the right when I walk. If you are at risk for a fall, the cane won't help you folded up in your purse. Heels are probably not the best idea for you either. When I first started having the attacks, I fell at least a dozen times in about three months. Some of them kind of hurt. They have become less over the past year but my balance is still very poor. So I had to give up my heels and start keeping a cane around. Please do be careful.
Thank you. For my luck, I didn't felt yet, but several times I was almost there.
I was catching something or somebody was catching me(mostly my husband).
Cane helping with balance. I know that it can not prevent me from faling at drop attack, but it can help me to balance up and sit down or get to safety place.
I will miss my heels. They are makes me feel like real lady. It is not going to be eazy to adjust from 7-9 sm heel wering women to someone who caring foldable
cane, even if it looks like James Bond cane...
Sexy happens with or without heels. Your husband can tell you that.
Ye, I know, but it was more for me than for him...I am short, only 160sm .
It was never bothering me, as I could always say that God in my case put
little bit more in my head than in my high. Heels somehow were make me enjoy
to feel myself perfect. Now, my greatest God gift(head) injured, I do not like how I look ...
As you said, it is an injury only. It does not change the you (who is perfect in Gods eye) but just adds a challenge. Women are always raised to be self conscious of how they look to the rest of the world. You only need to be there for the ones you love as they are for you. It is an adjustment to go through and one you may have to make several adjustments to over the years. There is nothing wrong with being exactly who you are and not care about the public who may try to judge you. We are all made differently for a reason. Learn to love who you are as growing any taller isn't in the books right now. I do not mean to be intrusive but have learned a lot through my many years. Just look yourself in the eye in the mirror every day and tell yourself you are perfect as you are-because you are.
Thank you. I think it was exactly what I needed to hear.
I kind of statrted to lost myself first time in my life.
I started to realize that this condition is for life.
Somehow I was beleving that I could train it.
I should stop with my resarches and self sorry. Tomorrow
going hiking to some park . More sport more meditation .
I should not give up my goals. I was learning 5th language
before axident. I should continue slowly. Every day word by
word. Thank you again. Have you beautiful weekend☺
You are welcome, be good to yourself dear.