GF informed me after 8 months that she has Herpes..HSV1 and HSV2..after 8 months together..We had unprotected sex multiple times. Also, I had a cut on my foreskin , so I am freaking out. She mentioned she has only 1 Genital outbreak over 15 years ago, and 3 oral outbreaks over the last 15 years. I feel a little violated over the non disclosure..Am i over reacting..Are the risks so low based on her lack of outbreaks, that its not a big deal....Any sincere advice would be appreciated..
Same happened to me. Took my ex 8 months to tell me. This was almost a year ago, havnt been with anybody until recently and now getting symptoms?
Need tests and medical guidance.
you’re not over reacting , it’s totally understood why you would feel this way and react like thus . But Her having not outbreaks are a good thing , you have a low chance of getting it and also a chance of not getting it due to her not having an outbreak . Your best bet is to get tested just to be sure .