Hello Everyone,
Thank you so much for your feedback. I was waiting to reply to your comments because I knew I was going to see the rheumotologist today.
I can't thank you all enough for your advice and insights. Everything you wrote all made sense AFTER I saw the rheumotologist. I guess everyone takes their own time to process things - but wow, yeah. I agree with what each of you has said.
The rheumotologist seemed very knowledgeable. She corrected the radiologists findings of fatty atrophy of the parotid gland and said in fact it was fatty infiltration of the parotid gland. Other than the fatty infiltration and swelling, my gland is a similar shape to the normal one in the left side. Today I learned that the only thing that causes fatty infiltration of an organ is inflammation - so there is something going on and it's been going on for a long time! Basically the right gland is gone (and I believe non-functional).
I also learned that I DO have dry mouth. This was a surprise to me. I drink a lot of water and use endless amounts of lip balm, but it never occured to me that this wasn't normal. Know what I mean? The doctor noted that my saliva was very thick and created strands between the top and bottom of my mouth. So many things are starting to make sense. The rheumotologist told me the worst thing I could do was to drink water to wet my mouth because this washes away the saliva I do that.
Almost all of my blood tests came back normal - except for something called a C3 compliment. This was low and indicative of either Sjogrens or Lupus. My ANA tests haven't come back yet, and she has ordered a new round of tests.
As for a diagnosis, she said she can't positively diagnosis me with Sjogrens on the basis of my current blood results, but she said it is very likely I have Sjogrens. She said that if I wanted a firm diagnosis, I could have the lip biopsy, but that it can come back negative or inconclusive. She also mentioned biopsying my fatty parotid, but said it was risky since there's a facial nerve that runs though (or near) the gland.
Phew! My head is still spinning.
So, I am going to have the new blood tests and wait to see what comes back. I also think I will take everyone's advice and stay away from the lip and parotid biopsy. This was, after all, an incidental finding. I just have a feeling that in a few years, my blood tests will confirm that I do have Sjogrens. (I just turned 40 by the way).
Thank you all SO MUCH for commenting on my post. I would love to hear further any thoughts or ideas. It's nice to know I am not alone.