Help?? I noticed this two days ago

Hi, I had unprotected sex 3 times since March 11 with my boyfriend (whos showed no signs of anything) and just recently (two days ago) I saw a bump with two ingrown hairs in it whilst showering. after i got out i decided to get my phone and take a video and screen shots of said video. It was tender to the touch, I sterilized some tweezers and tried to pull the hairs out and it seemed to have gotten irritated but still didnt really hurt and quickly went down in swelling that same day and seems to be going away quickly. Could this be herpes or an ingrown hair healing?