ich habe eine frage

hello

how are u all

it have been almost two year with no citlopram

and now i am thinking to get pregnant 

but there is a question i started thinking about it a lot

Do i deserve to be a mother, or am i qualify to be a mom

because i am not sure if i be stable while my life ,

i already have amazing deauther , she is 2 year and half , and she is a really happy baby 

she dance and sing 

she is funny  and love to play all the time

so i love to see a brother or a sister to her

but i don’t know i start think like that , maybe i now that life start to become difficult and hard

so what do u think guys 

is depressed person can become  perent ? 

do u life with  depressed dad or mom in your childhood/ how it’s like ?

can i be in antidepressants in my pregnancy if i need , or diced to be mother ?

thank u 

Hi Roby

Firstly of course you deserve to be a Mother and you're qualified to be one. It sounds like you're doing an amazing job already for your daughter.

Being a mum to a newborn baby is tough whether you have depression or not. When I gave birth to my son, I had recovered from depression for a couple of years. However, a while after giving birth, it did trigger the depression again, but it wasn't as severe. Maybe because I was aware of the signs and got help a lot quicker.

I believe you can't take Citalopram during pregnancy (someone please correct me if I am wrong), but I have a friend who took a different antidepressant during pregnancy and both her boys were born fine. I can't remember off hand the name of the drug she takes.

Whatever you decide to do, good luck with it! x

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thank u so much for your replay 

that’s give me a hope

and really mean a lot to me

i was feeling alone and like i need so reassurance 

i am so great full for your replay 

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