so when i first started dating my boyfriend the sex was nice, but now all the sudden its like if he puts his dick half way in me it hurts and its not like im dry or not turned on enough. but i mean he is 8 and a half inches long so i was wondering if any other girl had this problem help :)
at certain times of the month the cervix cam be lower in the vagina which can make sex more uncomfortable basically its hitting the cervix
A sex therapist that I know (lol) told me that sometimes it doesnt matter how wet you are it can still be mental.. At the beginning you have a stronger desire to please each other all the time and have an overwhelming lust, which might have taken away from the reality that his dick is bigger than your vagina. Your vagina will be fully engaged and get wet as its natural instinct but your brain has to be fully engaged in being there too. At the begining of relationship your brain is always in sex mode and prepared for it, but as any healthy relationship carrys on, you get more comfortable together and life goes back to reality, and so does your vagina… No matter how wet you are… So for people with boyfriends with normal sized dicks this is fine because it isnt too long for their vagina, but for people having sex with bigger partners it can start to irritate you.. try holding off on having sex until YOU really really really cant anymore… But also, if it changes by the month, then it could be your cycle too. You will create more cervical fluid deep up in there during certian times and not as much other times and your vagina will simply stretch deeper sometimes and not others.. But if neither one of these help then you could see a doctor