Dear Rachel,
I empathize with you regarding the agonizing pain, fatigue, exhaustion, and dread of when the next episode will attack. Also, not all your friends and family understand the excruciating Neurogenic pain and flu- like symptoms that accompany Herpes Zoster-Shingles.
I have had Herpes Zoster-Shingles in my right ear every three to five weeks for the past twenty-one years and twice in my right eye.
Here is what I recommend to reduce the frequency and severity of pain of episodes.
1. Get the Shingrex Immunization. It is a two stage vaccination one month apart, intramuscular injection. It is highly efficacious in stopping recurrent Herpes Zoster-Shingles.
It is available in the US at the pharmacy and covered by insurance. As you are younger than 50, and you have had shingles, it is still covered. You might need a note/ prescription from your Physician. If you are in the UK/Canada/Australia/NZ, I know it has been distributed there, but the national health insurance may not cover it until age 70, which is ridiculous. It is expensive, but I would have paid thousands not to have recurrent shingles.
2. Google High Arginine Low Lysine Diet and Herpes. The amino acid Arginine helps prevent Herpes Zoster-Shingles, and Arginine triggers Shingles. Chocolate, Nuts, and Legumes are all high in Arginine.
3. Avoid the sun, UV radiation as it triggers Shingles, big-time!
4. Try taking either Valcyclovir or Famciclovir as a maintenance dose daily. It does help some people. Do not take Acyclovir, as the Herpes Zoster-Shingles virus has developed resistance to this Antiviral. It is the oldest, and does not work, especially on people with recurrent Herpes Zoster-Shingles.
5. Remove stressful ie toxic people from your life! Easier said than done, I know, but...if you have "so called friends" that are just using you, get rid of them. Family members who are entitled? Learn to say "No!"
6. Is your job poison? Change it!
You need to examine your life, delegate what you can, and rid yourself of the stress when you can.
Stress is your enemy!
7. Do you have any medical conditions predisposing you to Shingles ie,
Autoimmune Disease, IBD, Cancer, taking Corticosteroids or DMARDS?
Make certain you are in control of your health and get top-notch Physicians you can trust!
I feel for you so much, as I know how painful and how lonely it is to suffer with no end in sight.
Please let me know if this helps you.
I am a Nurse Practitioner in the States.
Best Wishes
Merry Juliana